Collinearity problems when analyzing age-dependent variable with age-at-death as a predictor

Let's say I'm analyzing the incidence of pathological lesions, observed during necropsy. No information is available about when the lesion occurred before death. So, I'm using a general linear model $Y_i \sim \beta_0+\beta_{sex}+\beta_{treatment}+\beta_{age}$. $Y_i \in \{0,1\}$ is whether subject $i$ has the lesion or not. Sex and treatment are categorical variables. Age is the age at which the subject died. I already know that if I fit a Cox proportional hazards model to $age \sim \gamma_{sex}+\gamma_{treatment}$ both effects are significant. Therefore, in the model for $Y_i$ the age term must be collinear with the sex and treatment terms. The VIFs are rather large, some of them above 100. On the other hand, if I drop all age-containing terms from the model, the fit becomes significantly worse.

What strategy would you recommend for somehow breaking or adjusting for this collinearity? Would fitting deviance residuals from the Cox model in place of the raw ages do the trick? It seems to work with no errors in R:

update(originalmodel,.~sex*diet*residuals(coxph(Surv(age)~sex+diet),type='deviance'))

...and it lowers the VIFs, but I don't know if it's actually valid.

@Tim: I have better than box-plots-- I have survival curves, and they clearly show that females have shorter lifespans than males, and subjects on the diet have longer lifespans than untreated subjects. So the age term in the model (really, longevity) is partly determined by sex and diet. But of course there is a component that is independent of sex and diet, and I want to include just that component in the model. So that's why I'm asking if using deviance (or some other) residuals in place of age in the model would accomplish that.

And the multicollinearity is severe, here are the VIFs (the model actually includes interaction terms, which I didn't mention above to keep things on-point):

      sex         diet          age     sex:diet      sex:age     diet:age sex:diet:age
82.042992   123.579264     4.270772    37.464412    72.537500   133.874481    37.464407

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