Quick and dirty - my thoughts on this. This might give you something to go on though I dunno if it is helpful. All usual assumptions
$$x_i=\rho x_{i-1} + \epsilon_t \\
y_i=x^2\\
y_i=(\rho x_{i-1} + \epsilon_t)^2\\
y_i=\rho^2 x_{i-1}^2 + 2\rho x_{i-1} \epsilon_t + \epsilon_t ^ 2\\
y_i=\rho^2 x_{i-1}^2 + 2\rho x_{i-1} \epsilon_t + \delta\\
E[\delta] = E[\epsilon_t^2] = \sigma^2 $$
Okay so then you get for some estimator which uncorrectly assuming AR(1) without including the quadratic thing
$$y_i^*=\phi^*y_{i-1}\\
\delta^* = y_i-y_i^*\\
E[\delta^*]=E[ y_i-y_i^*]=E[\phi x_{i-1}^2 + 2\rho x_{i-1} \epsilon_t + \delta - \phi^*y_{i-1}]\\
= (\phi-E[\phi^*]) y_{i-1} + \sigma^2 $$
So assuming the estimator is somehow unbiased we have $E[\delta^*] = \sigma^2$
$$Cov[\delta^*_t, \delta^*_{t-1}] = E[(\delta^*_t-E[\delta^*_t])(\delta^*_{t-1}-E[\delta^*_{t-1}])]\\
= E[(\delta^*_t-\sigma^2)(\delta^*_{t-1}-\sigma^2)] \\
= E[\delta^*_t \delta^*_{t-1} - \sigma^2 \delta^*_{t-1} - \sigma^2 \delta^*_{t} + \sigma^4]\\
= E[\delta^*_t \delta^*_{t-1}] = \sigma^4$$
I can see where you are coming from, but maybe this is just too small a number? 0,55^4 is around 0,09. What is the result for a much larger simulated standard deviation?
Maybe this also breaks down because the estimator is no longer unbiased. I will continue this for the biased case later but maybe you can go with this and check my thoughts there's probably some type of error in there.