The OP is interested in Var(sample covariances) in a bivariate Normal world.
- You know the solution for: Var(sample variances) (main diagonal), so ...
- All that is needed is the solution for: Var(sample covariance)
Then there is no need for any matrix notation whatsoever, and if I understand correctly, the question reduces to:
Question:
Let $(X,Y)$ be bivariate Normal. Given a sample of size $n$, namely $\big( (X_1, Y_1), \dots, (X_n, Y_n) \big)$, find $\text{Var}(W)$, where the sample covariance $W$ is defined as:
$$W = \frac 1 {n-1} \sum_{i=1}^n (X_i - \bar X)(Y_i-\bar Y). $$
Answer:
This problem can be solved much more generally. We will obtain a general solution to $\text{Var}(W)$ for any distribution whose moments exist, and then solve for the Normal as a special case. The modus operandi for solving such problems is to work with power sum notation, which in our bivariate world is of form $s_{r,t}$, namely:
$$s_{r,t}=\sum _{i=1}^n X_i^r Y_i^t$$
In particular, sample covariance $W$ can be written in power sum notation as:
We seek $\text{Var}(W)$. Since the variance operator is the $2^\text{nd}$ Central Moment of $W$, we can find the variance using the mathStatica (for Mathematica) package function :
where:
- $\mu _{r,s}$ denotes the product central moment:
$$\mu _{r,s}=E\left[(X-E[X]]^r (Y-E[Y])^s\right]$$
For example, $\mu_{1,1} = \text{Cov}(X,Y)$, $\mu_{2,0}= \text{Var}(X)$ and $\mu_{0,2}= \text{Var}(Y)$.
This is a general solution for any bivariate distribution whose moments exist.
Special case of bivariate Normal
In the case of a bivariate Normal with variance-covariance:
$$\Sigma = \left(
\begin{array}{cc}
\sigma _{11}^2 & \rho \sigma _{11} \sigma _{22} \\
\rho \sigma _{11} \sigma _{22} & \sigma _{22}^2 \\
\end{array}
\right)$$
... the various central moments $\mu_{i,j}$ are:
Substituting in these values into the general solution sol
yields $\text{Var}(W)$ in the bivariate Normal case as:
I am not sure if this is the same as the OP's posted solution of: $\frac{1}{n-1}(\sigma_{ij}^2 + \sigma_{ii}\sigma_{jj})$, as the notation he intended for $\sigma_{ij}$ is not tied down and appears inconsistent with that used by the OP for the diagonal cases, which the OP states correctly as: $\text{Var}(s^2) = \frac{2\sigma^4}{n-1}$
In summary, for the Normal case, the Variance of sample covariances is:
$$ \text{Var} \left(
\begin{array}{cc}
\frac 1 {n-1} \sum_{i=1}^n (X_i - \bar X)^2 & \frac 1 {n-1} \sum_{i=1}^n (X_i - \bar X)(Y_i-\bar Y) \\
\frac 1 {n-1} \sum_{i=1}^n (X_i - \bar X)(Y_i-\bar Y) & \frac 1 {n-1} \sum_{i=1}^n (Y_i-\bar Y)^2 \\
\end{array} \right)$$
$$= \frac{1}{n-1}\left(
\begin{array}{cc}
2 \sigma _{11}^4 & \left(1+\rho ^2\right) \sigma _{11}^2 \sigma _{22}^2 \\
\left(1+\rho ^2\right) \sigma _{11}^2 \sigma _{22}^2 & 2 \sigma _{22}^4 \\
\end{array} \right)$$