In econometrics, we typicall assume exogeneity as, starting with $y = x\beta + \epsilon$:
$E[\epsilon|x]=0$.
I always intuitively thought about this in an abstract sense, away from the individual observations per se, as just the underlying relationship between x and y in the population is such that y doesnt cause x and x isnt correlated with any other unobservable determinant of y. However, I think in the context of individual notation, this becomes confusing. For instance, if the above is actually saying:
$E[\epsilon_i|x_i]$=0 for all i, then what would the following imply:
say for observation j in the data set, $E[\epsilon_j|x_j]$ = f($x_j)$, f`(.)>0 - so higher levels of $x_j$ lead to higher draws of $\epsilon_j$ in expectation, but for all i =/= j, $E[\epsilon_i|x_i]$ = 0? Could this logically make sense? what does it imply about the exogeneity assumptions? how does it even intuitively arrive- would the idea be, if say I am observation i, If i were to receive higher levels of x, it is also because of some other unobservable effecting y?