The standard error is an approximation of the standard deviation of the sampling distribution of the sample means. The real standard deviation of the sampling distribution, $\sigma _{\bar x}$ is:
$$\sigma _{\bar x} = \frac{\sigma}{\sqrt{n}}$$
, where $n$ is the sample size and $\sigma$ is the standard deviation of the variable we are interested in. As $\sigma$ is unknown, we replace it by $s$, the standard deviation of our sample and this gives the standard error.
$$SE_{\bar x} = \frac{s}{\sqrt{n}}$$
Why do we use $s$, the sample variance, rather than the unbiased sample standard deviation $\frac{(n-1)s}{n}$? The unbiased sample standard deviation $\frac{(n-1)s}{n}$ would be a better estimation of the variance of the variable we are interested in, wouldn't it? Intuitively, I would rather calculate the standard error as being:
$$SE_{\bar x} = \frac{n\cdot s}{(n-1)\sqrt{n}} = \frac{s \sqrt{n}}{n-1}$$