I am using R/survival to analyze survival data from cancer patients. I have recently learned that there are many kinds of estimators for the Cox model, and I understand, that in theory, their order of accuracy is 1. exact, 2. Efron, 3. Breslow.
However, it is also possible to use 'robust' estimator of variance in R/survival, which sounds like a useful idea. However, this does not seem to work with the exact estimator. Secondly, I assume that Breslow is the standard estimator in many programs, such as Stata and SPSS, and furthermore, survdiff in the same R package calculates the log-rank test by using Breslow (without robust) by default.
So what is really the order of preference between the estimators? Efron with robust, or exact without robust? Breslow for publication technical reasons? This is very confusing for a statistician coming outside of the survival analysis community - and my guess is that most non-statisticians don't even know about the question.