Let $\{x_1, \ldots, x_n\}$ be a set of $n$ i.i.d. samples from a distribution $p(x)$. I would like to evaluate the distribution of the sum $$ S = \sum_{1\leq i<j\leq n} f(x_i, x_j), $$ where $f$ is a continuous function.
The sample size $n$ is sufficiently large that I cannot approximate the distribution by Monte Carlo simulation. The central limit theorem cannot be applied because the summands are not i.i.d.
Edit: The question is distinct from Limit of a convolution and sum of distribution functions. The linked question considers the behaviour of $P(S>x)$ in the limit $x\rightarrow \infty$. I am however interest in the limit $n\rightarrow\infty$ where $n$ is the number of samples.
Edit: Maybe adding some context will make the question more easily understandable. I am considering interaction rates between distinct entities labelled by an index $i$. A random attribute $x_i$ is associated with each entity and the interaction rate between two individuals $f(x_i, x_j)$ is a function of said attributes. I would like to determine the distribution of the total rate of events $S$. At the moment, I am using a very simple functional form $f(x_i,x_j)=\exp(-a |x_i-x_j|)$.