what is the meaning of 'tail' of kurtosis? There are two kurtosis types : positive(leptokurtic) and negative(platykurtic).
leptokurtic is heavy tailed, and platykurtic is thin tailed.
But leptokurtic is more thinner and pointy than platykurtic so I think leptokurtic is thin tailed... But it is heavy-tailed. So I found that I misunderstood the meaning of 'tail'
What does the tail mean?
 A: Comments from probably deleted duplicate question that are useful:
In fact, higher kurtosis is associated with both increased peakedness and heavier extreme tails, but there's no necessary relationship in either case (you can find counterexamples to higher peak or heavier extreme tails, even though both are typical with higher kurtosis). A variety of shapes is possible in either case. – Glen_b♦ Sep 17 '13 at 11:10
Kendall and Stuart (I think in Vol I) present a collection of counterexamples to the various combinations of peak and tails. See also the discussion here – Glen_b♦ Sep 17 '13 at 11:16
Also see the paper by Kevin P. Balanda and H.L. MacGillivray. "Kurtosis: A Critical Review". The American Statistician 42:2 [May 1988], pp 111–119. (And yes, generally speaking, fat-tailed and heavy-tailed are synonyms, except for contexts where one or both has been given an explicit definition.) – Glen_b♦ Sep 17 '13 at 11:23
You might want to read the following paper: DeCarlo, L. T. (1997). On the meaning and use of kurtosis. Psychological Methods, 2(3), 292. – Alecos Papadopoulos Sep 17 '13 at 23:31
A caveat about the DeCarlo paper - the very first sentence of the abstract is wrong! Even for symmetric, unimodal distributions, high kurtosis does not mean "peakedness," and low kurtosis does not mean flatness. There are symmetric, unimodal flat-topped distributions with extremely high (even infinite) kurtosis; there are also infinitely peaked distributions with negative excess kurtosis. See specific examples given here: en.wikipedia.org/wiki/… – Peter Westfall Oct 21 '17 at 12:20
Glen_b, your "you can find counterexamples to heavier extreme tails, though both are typical with higher kurtosis" is only correct if you define "heavier extreme tails" in a particular way out of infinite ways. There is no counterexample to the mathematical facts that (i) as kurtosis tends to infinity, E(Z^4*I(|Z| >b))/kurtosis ->1, for all b; and (ii) kurtosis is within +- .5 of E(Z^4*I(|Z| > 1)) +.5; both of these statements explain how kurtosis is related to tails of the distribution, and not the peak. If you define "heavier tails" as larger "E(Z^4*I(|Z| > 1))" then there you have kurtosis. – Peter Westfall Nov 15 '17 at 23:32
Glen_b, your comment "In fact, higher kurtosis is associated with both increased peakedness ..." seems patently false in the face of numerous counterexamples. Can you provide a theorem to justify it? – Peter Westfall Nov 20 '17 at 1:43
The above, and the question itself are rooted in what kurtosis is. It may be useful to review a physical problem for which kurtosis is defined. For that, the fourth moment about the mean is analogous to a thin sheet of material rotated about its mean mass, or vertical balance point, as a rate of change of a rate of change of torque. This says very little about the thin sheet's height at any particular distance from the axis of rotation, but rather is an integral behaviour over the whole sheet.
A: There are two parts to address here -- 1. what does it mean for something to be heavy-tailed? and 2. does higher kurtosis mean a heavier tail and vice-versa?


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*What's heavy-tailed mean?
a. What heavier tail means in a "handwavy" sense -- most people picture it this way:

but because the tail is quite small, it's better to look at the log-density (which preserves the ordering of height of density)

(that handwavy sense fails, however, in a variety of cases, including the rather basic situations of when you try to encompass distributions which are not continuous and unimodal)
b. More strictly, a good definition (about which, see whuber's answer here) for heavy-tailedness would be that if $Y$ is heavier-tailed than $X$, as $t$ becomes sufficiently large, then $S_Y(t)>S_X(t)$ for all $t>t_0$ fr some $t_0$, where $S$ is the survivor function, $1-F$. [This is of course, for heavier-tailed on the right; there'd be a similar definition for left-tail heavy tailedness in terms of $F$ rather than $S$. When both tails are under consideration, as they would need to be for comparing kurtosis, "heavier tailed" would apply if it was heavier in both tails.]
(Again, however, if you're trying to look at it, a log-scale comparison would often be more useful than a direct comparison of $S(t)$)

*How does heavy-tailedness relate to kurtosis?
Now we have a definition of what a heavy tail is, the premise (which is not your own, since it's in countless textbooks) in your question is false -- there is no absolutely general connection between heavy-tailedness and higher 4th standardized moment. It tends to be the case that higher kurtosis goes with heavier tail and vice-versa -- we see that when comparing a t(5) with a normal, for example -- but it's not always the case; one can readily find a lighter-tailed distribution by that definition in 2.b.
which nevertheless has higher kurtosis. See this example -- t with 10d.f. vs Laplace:

(in this case, because $f$ is always higher past a certain point, the survivor function must also be higher at least in that region so we can just stick with density for the comparison. Note that these two densities cross six times. the Laplace has a higher tail between about 2.5145 and 12.8, as well as a higher peak; that gives it higher kurtosis even though its extreme tail is lower)
A: There is most definitely a direct relationship connection between kurtosis and the tails of distribution. One simple connection is as follows: Let $X$ be any random variable with finite fourth moment, let $Z = (X - \mu)/\sigma$, and let $U = Z^4$. Then the kurtosis of $X$ is $E(U)$.
A common way of teaching and understanding expectation is using the "point of balance" concept, where the expected value of a random variable is equal to the point on the horizontal axis where the distribution plot balances. 
Consider the plot of the probability distribution function (pdf) of $U$, and locate the value 3.0 on the horizontal axis. This is the kurtosis of the normal distribution.  If the pdf is too heavy to the right of 3.0, so that it is pulled down to the right when attempted to balance at 3.0, then the kurtosis is greater than 3.0, and the distribution of $X$ can be said to be "heavier tailed than the normal distribution." Conversely, if  the pdf of $U$ is too light to the right of 3.0, so that the curve is pulled down to the left when attempted to balance at 3.0, then the kurtosis is less than 3.0, and the distribution of $X$ can be said to be "lighter tailed than the normal distribution." 
In light of the above discussion, "tail leverage" is perhaps a better characterization of kurtosis than "tail mass." It is possible that more mass in the tails corresponds to less kurtosis, and that less mass in the tails corresponds to greater kurtosis. It all depends on the remoteness of the mass; i.e., it depends on the leverage. 
Precise mathematical logic showing that kurtosis is mostly determined by the tails is given as follows: 
For all possible distributions of random variables $X$ having finite fourth moment (discrete, continuous, skewed, empirical), kurtosis is necessarily between 
$\int Z^4  I(|Z| > 1)  dF(Z)$
and 
$\int Z^4  I(|Z| > 1)  dF(Z)      + 1$, 
where $Z = (X-\mu)/\sigma$.
For continuous distributions in this class with density of $Z^2$ decreasing on the interval $[0,1]$, the "$+1$" is reduced to "$+.5$" or less.
Finally, for any sequence of distributions where the kurtosis $k$ tends to infinity, 
$\int Z^4  I(|Z| > b)  dF(Z) / k \rightarrow 1$,    
for all real $b$.
These are all mathematical theorems so there can be no counterexamples.
Thus, it is primarily the values in the tails of the $Z$ distribution that determine the value of kurtosis.
Yes, there are other tailweight measures that are not kurtosis, in fact there are infinitely many. So it is a red herring to state that kurtosis does not measure tailweight if it does not correspond to a particular tailweight measure. It is an unsupported generalization to say that, just because kurtosis does not measure one of infinitely many tailweight measures, that kurtosis itself does not measure tailweight.  
I have seen no theorems generally linking kurtosis to the peak, or to the probability concentration within the $\mu \pm \sigma$ range, but I have seen plenty of counterexamples to such notions. Can anyone point to such a theorem?
The three theorems I mentioned above are proven in Westfall, P.H. (2014). Kurtosis as Peakedness, 1905 – 2014. R.I.P. The American Statistician, 68, 191–195.
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4321753/
Edit, 7/18/2018: Yet another theorem to connect kurtosis to the tails (and not the peak). Take any distribution (or data set). Remove the data or mass within one standard deviation of the mean. Replace the data/mass in any way you like, but keep the mean and standard deviation the same as with the original data/distribution. Then the difference between the maximum and minimum kurtosis for all such replacements is $\le$ 0.25.
If you play the same game with the tails, the difference is unbounded.
