Look at the outcomes of the repeated trials in pairs (1st,2nd),
(3rd,4th), (5th,6th), and so on.
Of the four possible outcomes $(H,H), (H,T), (T,H)$ and $(T,T)$
on the first pair of trials, your desired event (that
$H$ occurred on an odd-numbered trial) is settled in three of
the four cases, with a Yes answer in 2 cases and a No answer
in 1 case. In the fourth case, the determination of whether
$H$ occurred on an odd-numbered trial is deferred to the
next pair of trials. So, in two cases out of three, $H$ occurred
on an odd-numbered trial, and in one case out of three $H$ occurred
on an even-numbered trial. If we kicked the can down the road,
then we look at trials #3 and #4 and repeat the analysis above,
keeping in mind that what is past is prologue and "History
is bunk" and that we can forget the past because we are doomed
to repeat the whole "toss the coin twice" routine again.
So, even though there are "equal numbers" of Heads and Tails
in an infinite sequence of coin tosses, whenever we actually
get to determine whether the first occurrence of Heads was
on an odd-numbered toss or an even-numbered toss, the only
possible (equally likely) outcomes are $(H,H), (H,T), (T,H)$:
no more kicking the can down the road; the answer is known
when we are done. So looking on this pair of trials on which
only three outcomes are possible, Heads first occurs on an
odd-numbered toss with probability
$\frac 23$. Is it possible that we never get to determine
the answer? Well, yes, it is possible in the sense that we
do not deny the logical possibility that every toss
results in Tails, but we remedy this mental defect
ofours by insisting that
the probability of $T$ being the outcome forever and ever and a day
is $\lim_{n\to\infty} 2^{-n} = 0$. (This is actually
an equivalent form of the third axiom of probability:
for a telescoping sequence of events, the probability of
the limiting event is the limit of the probability.)
Now, if you want to have some more fun, consider that we could
exchange Heads and Tails (and $H$ and $T$) everywhere in what
is written above and arrive at the result that the probability
that the first Tails occurs on an odd-numbered trial is
also $\frac 23$. Now, the events $A$ = "First Heads on an odd-numbered
trial" and "$B$ = First Tails on an odd-numbered trial" can possibly
occur simultaneously, and this compound event $A\cap B$
occurs exactly when
the outcomes are
\begin{align}
&(H,H,T)\\
&(H,H,H,H,T)\\
&(H,H,H,H,H,H,T)\\
& \cdots\\
or~~~~ \\
&(T,T,H)\\
&(T,T,T,T,T,H)\\
&(T,T,T,T,T,T,T,H)\\
& \cdots
\end{align}
Thus, $P(A\cap B) = 2\left(\frac 18 + \frac{1}{32}+\frac{1}{128}+\cdots\right)
= \frac 14\times\frac{1}{1 - \frac 14} = \frac 13$ of occurring.
This makes perfect sense: the union $A\cup B$ is the
event that either a Head _or a Tail occurs for the first time
on an odd-numbered trial, and this has probability $1$.
Indeed, since
$$P(A\cup B) = P(A) + P(B) - P(A\cap B),$$
we could have deduced that $P(A\cap B) = \frac 13$ from the
knowledge that $P(A) = P(B) = \frac 23$, and $P(A\cup B) = 1$ without
needing to sum a geometric series.