The Spark documentation for this kind of thing doesn't seem very thorough, so I looked at the source. There's a comment here saying
// Need not divide with the norm of the given vector since it is constant.
This seems consistent with the following code.
So, it seems that findSynonyms
doesn't actually return cosine distances, but rather cosine distances times the norm of the query vector. The ordering and relative values are consistent with the true cosine distance, but the actual values are all scaled.
Not sure why the number of iterations or data partitions should have any bearing on this.