It seems when people say Cohen's d they mostly mean:
$$d = \frac{\bar{x}_1 - \bar{x}_2}{s}$$
Where $s$ is the pooled standard deviation,
$$s = \sqrt{\frac{\sum(x_1 - \bar{x}_1)^2 + (x_2 - \bar{x}_2)^2}{n_1 + n_2 - 2}}$$
There are other estimators for the pooled standard deviation, probably the most common apart from the above being:
$$s^* = \sqrt{\frac{\sum(x_1 - \bar{x}_1)^2 + (x_2 - \bar{x}_2)^2}{n_1 + n_2}}$$
Notation here is remarkably inconsistent, but sometimes people say that the the $s^*$ (i.e., the $n_1 + n_2$ version) version is called Cohen's $d$, and reserve the name Hedge's $g$ for the version that uses $s$ (i.e., with Bessel’s correction, the n1+n2−2 version). This is a bit weird as Cohen outlined both estimators for the pooled standard deviation (e.g., $s$ version on p. 67, Cohen, 1977) before Hedges wrote about them (Hedges, 1981).
Other times Hedge's g is reserved to refer to either of the bias corrected versions of a standardised mean difference that Hedges developed. Hedges (1981) showed that Cohen's d was upwardly biased (i.e., its expected value is higher than the true population parameter value), especially in small samples, and proposed a correction factor to correct for Cohen's d's bias:
Hedges's g (the unbiased estimator):
$$g = d * (\frac{\Gamma(df/2)}{\sqrt{df/2 \,}\,\Gamma((df-1)/2)})$$
Where $df = n_1 + n_2 -2$ for an independent groups design, and $\Gamma$ is the gamma function.
(originally Hedges 1981, this version developed from Hedges and Olkin 1985, p. 104)
However, this correction factor is fairly computationally complex, so Hedges also provided a computationally trivial approximation that, while still slightly biased, is fine for almost all conceivable purposes:
Hedges' $g^*$ (the computationally trivial approximation):
$$ g^* = d*(1 - \frac{3}{4(df) - 1})$$
Where $df = n_1 + n_2 -2$ for an independent groups design.
(Originally from Hedges, 1981, this version from Borenstein, Hedges, Higgins, & Rothstein, 2011, p. 27)
But, as for what people mean when they say Cohen's d vs. Hedges' g vs. g*,
people seem to refer to any of these three estimators as Hedge's g or Cohen's d interchangeably, although I've never seen someone write "$g^*$" in a non-methodology/stats research paper. If someone says "unbiased Cohen's d", you're just going to have to take your best guess at either of the last two (and I think there might even be another approximation that has been used for Hedge's $g^*$ too!).
They are all virtually identical if $n > 20$ or so, and all can be interpreted in the same way. For all practical purposes, unless you're dealing with really small sample sizes, it probably doesn't matter which you use (although if you can pick, you may as well use the one that I've called Hedges' g, as it is unbiased).
References:
Borenstein, M., Hedges, L. V., Higgins, J. P., & Rothstein, H. R. (2011). Introduction to Meta-Analysis. West Sussex, United Kingdom: John Wiley & Sons.
Cohen, J. (1977). Statistical power analysis for the behavioral sciences (2nd ed.). Hillsdale, NJ, US: Lawrence Erlbaum Associates, Inc.
Hedges, L. V. (1981). Distribution Theory for Glass's Estimator of Effect size and Related Estimators. Journal of Educational Statistics, 6(2), 107-128. doi:10.3102/10769986006002107
Hedges L. V., Olkin I. (1985). Statistical methods for meta-analysis. San Diego, CA: Academic Press