Suppose that $X_1,X_2,\dotsc,X_N$ are iid with the unit exponential distribution with density $f(x) = e^{-x}, x\ge 0$. (You can adapt the results to some other rate). But, each $X_i$ (the waiting time before person $i$ makes his phone call) will only be realized with some probability $p$, and with probability $1-p$ the call is not done and we do not observe that $X_i$. The number of realized calls $r$ has the binomial distribution $\text{bin}(N,p)$. So, reorder the variables so the realized calls (conditional on $r$) is $X_1,\dotsc,X_r$. Then, assuming that $K\le r$, you asked for the distribution of the order statistic $X_{K:r}$. Now, the theory of exponential order statistics is especially simple, so, using results taken from the book: Barry Arnold: "A First Course in Order Statistics", which I will not rederive here (but the proofs are really simple, and can be found here: https://math.stackexchange.com/questions/80475/order-statistics-of-i-i-d-exponentially-distributed-sample), transform the order statistics to exponential spacings, given by
$$
Z_1 = r X_{1:r}, \\
Z_2 = (r-1)(X_{2:r}-X_{1:r}) \\
\vdots \\
Z_r = X_{r:r}-X_{r-1:r}.
$$
Then the surprising and simple result is that the variables $Z_1, Z_2, \dotsc,Z_r$ are iid distributed unit exponential.
By some algebra we get that $X_{K:r}$ has the same distribution as
$\sum_{i=1}^K \frac1{r-i+1} Z_i$, that is, a linear combination of independent exponential random variables. If all the coefficients in the linear combination were equal, this would be a gamma distribution. Now it is a more complicated distribution which have been studied in http://www.tandfonline.com/doi/abs/10.1080/03610928308828483?journalCode=lsta20, for instance.
Now, you need to decide what you want to do in the case that $K>r$. Barring that problem, what you need now is simply the mixture distribution of $X_{K:r}$ over the binomial distribution of $r$.