Student001 already gave a solution for the question and accepted.
Micheal M's comments are also very helpful, so I will post another solution following Micheal's suggestion without using matrix notation.
$X_1-\bar{X}=X_1-\frac{X_1+X_2+...+X_n}{n}\\=X_1-\frac{X_1}{n}-\frac{X_2+X_3+...+X_n}{n}\\=(1-\frac{1}{n})X_1-\frac{1}{n}(X_2+X_3+...+X_n)$
Next we know that:
$(1-\frac{1}{n})X_1\sim N(\frac{n-1}{n}\mu,\frac{(n-1)^2}{n^2}\sigma^2) \tag 1$
$\frac{1}{n}(X_2+X_3+...+X_n)\sim \frac{1}{n}N((n-1)\mu,(n-1)\sigma^2)=N(\frac{n-1}{n},\frac{n-1}{n^2}\sigma^2) \tag 2$
And $(1)-(2)$ has a $N(0,\frac{(n-1)^2+n-1}{n^2}\sigma^2)=N(0,\frac{n-1}{n}\sigma^2)$
i.e $X_1-\bar{X}\sim N(0,\frac{n-1}{n}\sigma^2)$
This result is exactly the same as Student001's results.
Another method as suggest by Glen_b: we need to find the variance of $X_i$ and $\bar{X}$
$Var(X_i-\bar{X})=Var(X_i)+Var(\bar{X})-2Cov(X_i,\bar{X})$
The key is to calculate the $Cov(X_i,\bar{X})$
$Cov(X_i,\bar{X})=Cov(X_i, \frac{1}{n}(X_1+X_2+...+X_i+...+X_n))$
We will use the formula: $Cov(X,Y+Z)=Cov(X,Y)+Cov(X,Z)$
$Cov(X_i,\frac{1}{n}(X_1+X_2+...+X_i+...+X_n)=cov(X_i,\frac{1}{n}X_1)+...+Cov(X_i,\frac{1}{n}X_i)+...+Cov(X_i,\frac{1}{n}X_n)$
By i.i.d we know that except $Cov(X_i,\frac{1}{n}X_i)$ all other terms are zeros.
$\therefore Cov(X_i,\bar{X})=Cov(X_i,\frac{1}{n}X_i)=\frac{1}{n}Cov(X_i,X_i)=\frac{1}{n}Var(X_i)=\frac{1}{n}\sigma^2$
Finally,
$Var(X_i-\bar{X})=Var(X_i)+Var(\bar{X})-2Cov(X_i,\bar{X})=\sigma^2+\frac{\sigma^2}{n}-2\frac{1}{n}\sigma^2=\frac{n-1}{n}\sigma^2$
All methods get same results.