ridge regression parameter space In Ridge regression we estimate coefficients as 
$\hat{\beta}|\lambda = \arg \min_\beta \|y - X\beta \|_2^2  + \|\lambda \beta\|_2^2 \qquad \qquad(1)$
for a given $\lambda$. 
If I wanted the coefficients to lie in the ball with radius $R$, I would use quadratically constrained least squares,
minimize $\|y - X\beta \|_2^2 $
subject to $ \|\beta\|_2^2 \leq R^2, \qquad \qquad (2)$
and, e.g., via Lagrange multipliers minimize $\|y - X\beta \|_2^2 + \nu\left(\|\beta\|_2^2 - R^2\right)$ with respect to $\nu, \beta$ to get vectors $(\tilde{\nu}, \tilde{\beta})$ where the minimum is reached. 
Now, if I wanted first, to constrain the parameters into the ball with radius $R$, how should I choose the $\lambda$ in Ridge regression setting so that it holds.
Is there a relationship between $R$ and $\lambda$ from (1), that tells me; you want your parameters to live in the ball with radius $R$, then choose this $\lambda$, which I fail to see?
My following question is - can one say when the solution of (1) $(\hat{\beta}, \lambda)$ is equaled to the solution of (2), $(\tilde{\beta}, \tilde{\nu})$, given the same data set and fixed R?
 A: Define the Lagrangian $$L_C(\beta, \nu) = \frac{1}{2n} \|y-X\beta\|_2^2 + \nu (\|\beta\|_2^2 - C).$$ Notice that the constrained estimator 
\begin{align*}
 \tilde\beta_C 
 & = \arg\min_{\beta \in \mathbb{R}^p \, : \, \|\beta\|_2^2 \leq C} \frac{1}{2n} \|y - X \beta\|_2^2 \\
 & = \arg\min_{\beta \in \mathbb{R}^p} \left( \max_{\nu \ge 0} \left\{ \frac{1}{2n} \|y - X \beta\|_2^2 + \nu \left( \|\beta\|_2^2 - C \right) \right\} \right) \\
 & = \arg\min_{\beta \in \mathbb{R}^p} \left( \max_{\nu \ge 0} \, L_C(\beta, \nu) \right).
\end{align*}
Also, notice the penalized estimator $$\hat\beta_\lambda = \arg\min_{\beta \in \mathbb{R}^p} \frac{1}{2n} \|y - X \beta\|_2^2 + \lambda \|\beta\|_2^2 = \arg\min_{\beta \in \mathbb{R}^p} L_K(\beta, \lambda), \tag{1}$$ for an arbitrary $K$. In particular, it holds for $K=C$.
As explained in my answer at Expressing the LASSO regression constraint via the penalty parameter, we have the relationship that $C = \|\hat\beta_\lambda\|_2^2$ and $\lambda = -\frac{\partial \frac{1}{2n} \|y - X \beta\|_2^2}{\partial \|\beta\|_2^2} |_{\tilde\beta_C}$.
The above formulations of the estimators shows that the constrained estimator is the first component of a saddle point of the Lagrangian $L_C$ (which is contrary to your comments about joint-minimization following equation $(2)$.) From this, we also see that the dual variable $\nu$ that you seek is the other component of the saddle point. We will leverage this interpretation to provide an answer to your questions.
We will assume that $C>0$ so that Slater's condition holds and $C < \|\beta^\mathrm{OLS}\|_2^2$ so that $C$ and $\tilde\nu_C$ are in bijective correspondence. When $C = 0$, we have that $\tilde\beta_C = 0$ and $\tilde\nu_C = \infty$. When $C \geq \|\beta^\mathrm{OLS}\|_2^2$, we have that $\hat\beta_C = \beta^\mathrm{OLS}$ and $\tilde\nu_c = 0$.
Since $C>0$, Slater's condition holds, so we know that there exists a saddle point of $L_C$, call it $(\tilde\beta_C, \tilde\nu_C)$. This means that $$\tilde\beta_C \in \arg\min_{\beta\in\mathbb{R}^p} L_C(\beta,\tilde\nu_C), \tag{2}$$ as we mentioned above, and $\tilde\nu_C \in \arg\max_{\nu \ge 0} L_C(\tilde\beta_C, \nu).$ (As an aside, it follows from these two relationships (after some algebra) that strong duality holds. Also, this second relationship can be used to determine the relationship between $C$ and $\lambda$.) Since $C < \|\beta^\mathrm{OLS}\|_2^2$, we know that $C$ and $\tilde\nu_C > 0$ are in bijective correspondence. Since the objective function $L_C(\beta, \tilde\nu_C)$ is strongly convex, it follows that the estimator is unique for each $C$. It also follows that the dual variable $\tilde\nu_C$ is uniquely determined by the estimator $\tilde\beta_C$. Therefore, by $(1)$ and $(2)$, we know that $\tilde\nu_C = \lambda$.
