We have
\begin{align}
\operatorname{Var}(x^T(A+B)x)&=\operatorname{Var}(x^TAx+x^TBx)
\\&=\operatorname{Var}(x^TAx)+\operatorname{Var}(x^TBx)+2\operatorname{Cov}(x^TAx,x^TBx)
\end{align}
So, $$\operatorname{Cov}(x^TAx,x^TBx)=\frac12\left[\operatorname{Var}(x^T(A+B)x)-\operatorname{Var}(x^TAx)-\operatorname{Var}(x^TBx)\right]\tag{1}$$
Note that for the calculation of variance and covariance when $x$ is multivariate normal, it is assumed that $A$ and $B$ are symmetric, which also makes $A+B$ symmetric.
For $y\sim N(0,I)$, it is shown here that $$\operatorname{Var}(y^TAy)=2\operatorname{tr}(A^2)\tag{2}$$
Now suppose $x\sim N(\mu,\Sigma)$ where $\Sigma$ is positive definite.
Then there exists a nonsingular matrix $C$ such that $\Sigma=CC^T$.
And $$x\sim N(\mu,\Sigma)\implies y=C^{-1}(X-\mu)\sim N(0,I)$$
So, $$x^TAx=(\mu+Cy)^TA(\mu+Cy)=\mu^TA\mu+2\mu^TACy+y^T(C^TAC)y$$
Therefore noting that $y$ and $y^T(C^TAC)y$ are uncorrelated,
\begin{align}
\operatorname{Var}(x^TAx)&=4\operatorname{Var}(\mu^TACy)+\operatorname{Var}\left(y^T(C^TAC)y\right)
\\&=4\mu^T(AC)(AC)^T\mu + 2\operatorname{tr}((C^TAC)(C^TAC))&\small\left[\text{ using }(2)\right]
\\&=4\mu^T A\Sigma A\mu + 2\operatorname{tr}(C^TA\Sigma AC)
\\&=4\mu^T A\Sigma A\mu + 2\operatorname{tr}(A\Sigma A\Sigma)
&\small\left[\because \,\operatorname{tr}(AB)=\operatorname{tr}(BA)\right] \tag{3}
\end{align}
Now it follows from $(1)$ and $(3)$ that
$$\operatorname{Cov}(x^TAx,x^TBx)=4\mu^TA\Sigma B\mu + 2\operatorname{tr}(A\Sigma B\Sigma)$$
For a direct calculation of the covariance and hence the variance, one may refer to Graybill's Matrices with Applications in Statistics, 2nd edition (1983).
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