In addition to @Dahn's nice answer, I thought I would try to say a little bit more about where the Bessel and Gamma functions come from. One starting point for arriving at the covariance function is Bochner's theorem.
Theorem (Bochner) A continuous stationary function $k(x, y) = \widetilde{k}(|x − y|)$ is positive definite if and only if
$\widetilde{k}$ is the Fourier transform of a finite positive measure:
$$\widetilde{k}(t) = \int_{\mathbb{R}} e^{−iωt}\mathrm{d}µ(ω) .$$
From this you can deduce that the Matérn covariance matrix is derived as the Fourier transform of $\frac{1}{(1+\omega^2)^p}$ (Source: Durrande). That's all good but it doesn't really tell us how you arrive at this finite positive measure given by $\frac{1}{(1+\omega^2)^p}$. Well,
it's the (power) spectral density of a stochastic process $f(x)$.
Which stochastic process? It's known that a random process on $\mathbb{R}^d$ with a Matérn covariance function is a solution to the stochastic partial differential equation (SPDE)
$$
(κ^2 − ∆)^{α/2} X(s) = φW(s),
$$
where $W(s)$ is Gaussian white noise with unit variance, $$\Delta = \sum_{i=1}^d \frac{\partial^2}{\partial x^2_i}$$ is the Laplace operator, and $α =ν + d/2$ (I think this is in Cressie and Wikle).
Why pick this particular SPDE/stochastic process? The origin is in spatial statistics where it's argued that this is the simplest and natural covariance that works well in $\mathbb{R}^2$:
The exponential correlation function is a natural correlation in one
dimension, since it corresponds to a Markov process. In two dimensions
this is no longer so, although the exponential is a common correlation
function in geostatistical work. Whittle (1954) determined the
correlation corresponding to a stochastic differential equation of
Laplace type:
$$ \left[ \left(\frac{\partial}{\partial t_1}\right)^2 + \left(\frac{\partial}{\partial t_2}\right)^2 - \kappa^2 \right] X(t_1, t_2) = \epsilon(t_1 , t_2) $$
where $\epsilon$ is white noise. The corresponding discrete lattice process is a second order
autoregression. (Source: Guttorp&Gneiting)
The family of processes included in the SDE associated with the Matérn equation includes the $AR(1)$ Ornstein–Uhlenbeck model of the velocity of
a particle undergoing Brownian motion. More generally, you can define a power spectrum for a family of $AR(p)$ processes for every integer $p$ which also have a Matérn family covariance. This is in the appendix of Rasmussen and Williams.
This covariance function is not related to Matérn cluster process.
References
Cressie, Noel, and Christopher K. Wikle. Statistics for spatio-temporal data. John Wiley & Sons, 2015.
Guttorp, Peter, and Tilmann Gneiting. "Studies in the history of probability and statistics XLIX On the Matern correlation family." Biometrika 93.4 (2006): 989-995.
Rasmussen, C. E. and Williams, C. K. I. Gaussian Processes for Machine Learning. the MIT Press, 2006.