$\newcommand{\e}{\varepsilon}$$\newcommand{\0}{\mathbf 0}$$\newcommand{\E}{\text E}$$\newcommand{\V}{\text{Var}}$I'll start by working with this in matrix form. Let $y = X\beta + \e$ be our model with $\e \sim \mathcal N(\0, \sigma^2 I)$ and $X \in \mathbb R^{n\times p}$ full rank. Then $\hat y = Hy$ where $H = X(X^TX)^{-1}X^T$ is the hat matrix. I'll use $\e$ for the actual unobserved error and $e = y - \hat y$ for the residuals.
Note that
$$
\E(e) = \E(y - \hat y) = X\beta - HX\beta = X\beta - X(X^TX)^{-1}X^TX\beta = \0
$$
so $e$ has mean $\0$. Additionally,
$$
\V(e) = \V\left[(I - H)y\right] = \sigma^2(I - H).
$$
Since $e = (I-H)y$ this means $e$ is a linear transformation of a Gaussian so $e$ is Gaussian too, thus
$$
e \sim \mathcal N(\0, \sigma^2 (I-H))
$$
The covariance matrix is positive semidefinite rather than positive definite since this is supported only on the column space of $X$, but when we consider just $e_i$ it'll behave fine.
A $t_k$ distribution is defined as
$$
\frac{\mathcal N(0, 1)}{\sqrt{\chi^2_k / k}}
$$
with independence between. Define
$$
t_i = \frac{e_i}{\hat\sigma_{(i)}\sqrt{1 - h_i}}
$$
where
$$
\hat\sigma_{(i)}^2 = \frac{1}{n - p - 1}e_{(i)}^Te_{(i)}
$$
is the error variance estimate computed for the model with observation $i$ dropped out (so the $n- p - 1$ reflects that $n-1$ was the sample size for this). Doing this means I'm considering the external studentized residuals and I'll actually get a $t$ distribution at the end. See the wikipedia article on studentized residuals for more.
The numerator is $e_i \sim \mathcal N(0, \sigma^2 (1 - h_i))$ where $h_i$ is the $i$th element of $\text{diag}(H)$. This means
$$
\frac{e_i}{\sigma\sqrt{1 - h_i}} \sim \mathcal N(0,1).
$$
Next, consider $\hat\sigma_{(i)}^2$. We have
$$
y_{(i)}^Ty_{(i)} = y_{(i)}^T(I_{n-1} - H_{(i)} + H_{(i)})y_{(i)} = y_{(i)}^T(I-H_{(i)})y_{(i)} + y_{(i)}^T H_{(i)} y _{(i)}
$$
with $H_{(i)}$ and $I-H_{(i)}$ being idempotent and $\text{rank}(I-H_{(i)}) = n-p-1$ so by Cochran's theorem
$$
y_{(i)}^T(I-H_{(i)})y_{(i)} / \sigma^2 = e_{(i)}^Te_{(i)} / \sigma^2 \sim \chi^2_{n-p-1}.
$$
All together this means
$$
t_i = \frac{e_i}{\hat\sigma_{(i)}\sqrt{1 - h_i}} = \frac{\frac{e_i}{\sigma\sqrt{1 - h_i}}}{\sqrt{\frac{e_{(i)}^Te_{(i)}}{\sigma^2(n-p-1)}}}
$$
is the ratio of a $\mathcal N(0,1)$ distribution to a $\sqrt{\chi^2_{n-p-1} / (n-p-1)}$. And since observation $i$ does not appear in $\hat\sigma_{(i)}$ I get independence. So that means
$$
t_i \sim t_{n-p-1}.
$$
I would not be guaranteed independence if I didn't use $\hat\sigma_{(i)}$; if you actually want to use the internal studentized residuals that use the same $\hat\sigma^2 = \frac 1{n-p}e^Te$ for every $t_i$ then you'll get a more complicated distribution.
Finally, in your particular case as the wikipedia article says we get
$$
1 - h_i = 1 - \frac 1n - \frac{(x_i - \bar x)^2}{S_{xx}}
$$
so we're done.
$\newcommand{\1}{\mathbf 1}$Here's a derivation of that. If we're doing simple linear regression then we'll have $X = (\1 \mid x)$ where $x \in \mathbb R^n$ is the non-intercept univariate predictor; $X$ being full rank is equivalent to $x$ not being constant. This means
$$
H = X(X^TX)^{-1}X^T = (\1 \mid x)\left(\begin{array}{cc}n & x^T\1 \\ x^T\1 & x^Tx\end{array}\right)^{-1}{\1^T\choose x^T}.
$$
We can use the formula for the explicit inverse of a $2\times 2$ matrix to find
$$
(X^TX)^{-1} = \frac{1}{nx^Tx - (x^T\1)^2}\left(\begin{array}{cc}x^Tx & -x^T\1 \\ -x^T\1 & n\end{array}\right)
$$
so all together we can do the multiplication to get
$$
H = \frac{1}{n x^Tx - (\1^T x)^2}\left(x^Tx\cdot \1\1^T - x^T\1 \cdot (\1 x^T + x \1^T) + n xx^T\right).
$$
This means
$$
h_i = \frac{x^Tx - 2x^T\1\cdot x_i + nx_i^2}{n x^Tx - (\1^T x)^2}.
$$
For the numerator, I can use the fact that $\1^Tx = n \bar x$ to rewrite it as
$$
x^Tx - 2nx_i\bar x + n x_i^2 = x^Tx + n(x_i^2 - 2 x_i\bar x + \bar x^2 - \bar x^2) \\
= x^Tx - n\bar x^2 + n(x_i - \bar x)^2
$$
and noting $S_{xx} = x^Tx - n \bar x^2$ I have
$$
h_i = \frac{S_{xx} + n(x_i - \bar x)^2}{nS_{xx}} = \frac 1n + \frac{(x_i - \bar x)^2}{S_{xx}}.
$$
This means
$$
1 - h_i = 1 - \frac 1n - \frac{(x_i - \bar x)^2}{S_{xx}}
$$
as desired.
$\square$