Let $\mathbf{X}$ be an $n\times p$ matrix. In multiple linear regression, we have
$$\boldsymbol{\hat{\beta}}=\mathbf{[X^TX]^{-1}X^Ty}\sim\mathcal{N}\Big(\boldsymbol{\beta}, \sigma^2 \mathbf{[X^TX]^{-1}}\Big)$$
I have read $\mathbf{[X^TX]^{-1}}$ grows with $\frac{1}{n}$, but I don't understand why.
For whatever reason, $\exists \mathbf{A}$ such that
$$\mathbf{X^TX}\approx n \mathbf{A}$$ where $\mathbf{A}$ is a constant matrix.
Suppose the rows of $\mathbf{X}$ are i.i.d. from some distribution who's random variable maps to $\mathbb{R}^p$. Then $(\mathbf{X^TX})_{ij} = \mathbf{x}_i \mathbf{x}_j^T$.
Somehow this helps us see the matrix $\mathbf{X^TX}$ is positive semi-definite.
Somehow knowing that helps us see that, by the law of large numbers, $$\mathbf{X^TX}\approx n \mathbb{E}[\mathbf{x}_i\mathbf{x}_j]^T$$
The fact that $\text{rank}(\mathbf{x}_i)=1$ is fine because, after taking the expected value, $\mathbf{X^TX}$ will be full rank.
I didn't really follow this proof. Could someone elaborate and fill in the gaps in my understanding?