I have two non-normally distributed variables (positively-skewed, exhibiting ceiling effects). I would like to calculate the correlation coefficient between these two variables. Due to the non-normal distribution, I used Spearman's rank-order correlation, which returns a correlation coefficient and a significance (p) value. My results (n=400) show a significant ($p = 8 \times 10^{-5}$) but weak correlation (Spearman's $\rho$ = .20). If one uses Pearson's, one could describe the strength of the correlation in terms of shared variance (coefficient of determination, $R^2$ – in my case $R^2$ = .04, ie. 4%). Clearly, for Spearman's, it doesn't seem meaningful to square the $\rho$ value as Spearman ranks data. What is the best way to talk about the effect size using Spearman's $\rho$?
Alternatively, following a discussion here (Pearson's or Spearman's correlation with non-normal data), I interpret the discussions as meaning that Pearson's correlation does not assume normality, but calculating p-values from the correlation coefficients does. Thus, I was wondering whether one could use Spearman to calculate the p-value of the correlation, and Pearson's to calculate the effect size, and thus continue to speak of shared variance between the two variables.