In Mathematica this works:
GPD = ParetoPickandsDistribution[2, 3, .07];
data = RandomVariate[GPD, 10^4];
FindDistributionParameters[data, ParetoPickandsDistribution[mu, sigma, eta]] ->
{mu -> 2.00036, sigma -> 2.96883, eta -> 0.07022}
where mu is the location parameter, sigma the scale parameter, and eta the shape parameter.
FindDistributionParameters can use 5 different methods (see the documentation), but I believe the default is maximum likelihood estimation (MLE). Mathematica has all the tools (Likelihood, LogLikelihood, FindMaximium, Maximize, and ParetoPickandsDistribution for the PDF) to do MLE from scratch, if that's your wont. There is a good explanation of MLE in Wikipedia.
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