Why should we expect there to be a square root involved? This would simply be a type of scaling which means $\alpha$ values are much larger than without the square root.
The total sum $\sum_{k=1}^K \theta_k^2$ is obviously the same in both forms. Since the alpha parameter is there to scale the importance of the regularisation part relative to the loss associated to the model fitting part it has no intrinsic interpretation.
Therefore, the square root would just be an additional scaling for alpha. It doesn't matter fundamentally, just as it doesn't matter whether there is a $\frac{1}{2}$ in the second equation or not. Also note that the second part is a sum over all parameter coefficients, usually denoted $K$, and not over the observation space usually denoted by $N$.
Finally, compare the L1-norm which in fact is fundamentally different by using absolute parameter values for $\theta$ rather than the squared parameter values in the L2-norm (although, again, any scaling would not matter since in the L1-norm, the $\alpha$ or $\lambda$ parameter is equally inconsequential.