You should not use backwards selection. There are numerous problems with it, including: it is extremely unlikely to pick the 'right' variables, the p-values will be invalid, and the model's out of sample predictive performance will be worse. (For more information, see my answer here: Algorithms for automatic model selection.)
In addition, whether or not a variable is significant isn't quite what you're after. You state that you want to identify risk factors. There are at least two interpretations of that. You might want to identify variables that are associated with / predictive of the response, whether they are causally related or not. These would be variables that are easier to assess, and would thus serve as screeners to alert doctors that a given patient should receive more scrutiny. The other interpretation is variables that have a causal impact on the response. The idea here is that these variables should be targets for interventions to prevent or minimize the response. These two perspectives sound similar, but they are not the same (see: 1, 2, and/or 3 (pdf)).
Your discussion of confounding implies you have the latter in mind. It is possible to achieve unbiased causal estimates with observational data by controlling for confounders, but that is more difficult than most people seem to think. At any rate, what it requires is controlling for all the causally relevant variables (and not controlling for the wrong variables), not controlling for all significant variables. A cause might not be significant in your model for any number of reasons, and inappropriate variables (e.g., mediators or common effects) might be significant despite not being the variables you want.
- If you have reason to include any variables (such as age and sex in this case), you should include them whether they are significant or not.
- The interpretation of those variables is the same as ever: a one-unit increase is associated with $\hat{\beta_j}$ increase in $Y$ (presumably the log of the odds of snoring, here). In addition, you could say their association is ambiguous in that you have insufficient evidence to be sure of the sign of the association to your chosen level of confidence. More generally however, the interpretation of variables included as possible confounders is typically of secondary interest; you are after the interpretation of candidate risk factors after controlling for confounders. In essence, they are almost nuisance variables.
- Typically, counfounders and predictors have a different ontological status in the model. That said, you certainly could be mistaken about what the status of a variable is and some of the things you had been thinking of as potential predictors are, in fact, confounders.