I have moved my comment to an answer so I can expand on it as requested.
[If you mean the variance form $\frac{1}{n}\sum_{i=1}^{n}(X-\bar{X_{n}})^{2}$ as ML (which it is for the normal), then both forms use exactly the same information - the sums of squares of deviation from the mean. The only difference is that scaling factor.]
If you need the variance estimate to be unbiased you could use it (note that in general you could take any MLE for the variance at a particular distribution and see if you can at least approximately unbias that; it may be more efficient), but it's not (say) minimum MSE for the variance, and it's not unbiased if you're taking the square root and using that for the standard deviation.
At least the ML estimate for the variance is still ML for the s.d. (irrespective of which distribution for you have an MLE of the variance).
Here's why I say that:
MLE's have the property of being invariant to transformation of parameters - the MLE of $g(\theta)$ is $g(\hat{\theta})$ (or more concisely, $\widehat{g(\theta)}=g(\hat{\theta})$). See the brief discussion here, and the stuff under note 2 here.
None of those prove it, but I'll give you a (somewhat handwavy) motivation/outline of an argument for the simple case of monotonic transformations. You can find a complete argument in many texts that discuss ML at more than a really elementary level.
In the case of monotonic transformations: Take a simple case - imagine I have some curve ($y$ vs $x$) with a single peak somewhere in the middle (both a global and local maximum). Now I transform the $x$ to $\xi$ ($\xi=t(x)$) while $y$ is unchanged. The shape of the curve changes, but the corresponding $y$'s don't. The original maximum of $y$ is still the same maximum at the corresponding place in $\xi$ as it was under $x$ (that is, if the maximum was at $x^*$, it's now at $\xi^*=t(x^*)$. You should see how to extend that intuition to a monotonic transformation and any global maximum. [The more general case of non-monotonic transformations is less immediately obvious, but is still true. Edit: It's true in the case of one-to-one functions by a similar argument to the above.]
Returning to the original answer:
In practice (in the the $n$ vs $n-1$ case) there's rarely much difference and I regularly use each in different circumstances with little worry. I'm usually not worried about an unbiased variance estimate