Question: Is there a straightforward proof of the following relationship between the (lower, non-regularized) incomplete beta function $\mathcal{B}(x; a ,b)$ and the (upper, non-regularized) incomplete gamma function $\Gamma(s,t)$:
$$\mathcal{B}\left(\frac{\alpha}{\alpha + \mu} ; \alpha, k + 1 \right) \sim \frac{\Gamma(\alpha) \Gamma(k+1, \mu)}{\Gamma(\alpha + k + 1)} \quad \text{as } \alpha \to \infty ,$$ where $f(\alpha) \sim g(\alpha)$ as $\alpha \to \infty$ means $\displaystyle\lim_{\alpha \to \infty} \frac{f(\alpha)}{g(\alpha)}=1$?
Notice in particular that this would be analogous to the relationship $\mathcal{B}(\alpha, k+1) = \frac{\Gamma(\alpha) \Gamma(k+1)}{\Gamma(\alpha + k + 1)}$ that one has for the (complete) beta function and the (complete) gamma function. I believe I was able to show that the above asymptotic relationship would be equivalent to showing the convergence of the negative binomial CDF to the Poisson CDF.
Background+definitions: The negative binomial distribution with "number of successes" $\alpha > 0$, $\alpha \in \mathbb{R}$, expectation/mean $\mu > 0$, $\mu \in \mathbb{R}$, and "probability of success" $\frac{\alpha}{\alpha + \mu}$ has the following CDF for $k \ge 0$, $ k \in \mathbb{N}$: $$\frac{\mathcal{B}\left(\frac{\alpha}{\alpha + \mu} ; \alpha, k + 1 \right)}{\mathcal{B}(\alpha, k+1)}, \quad \text{where} \quad \mathcal{B}(x; a, b) := \int_{0}^x t^{a-1} (1-t)^{b-1} \mathrm{d}t . $$ The Poisson distribution with expectation/mean $\mu > 0$, $\mu \in \mathbb{R}$ has the following CDF for $k \ge 0$, $k \in \mathbb{N}$: $$\frac{\Gamma(k+1, \mu)}{\Gamma(k+1)}, \quad \text{where} \quad \Gamma(s,t) := \int_{t}^{\infty} e^{-u} u^{s-1} \mathrm{d}u . $$
Note: One can also show the convergence in distribution using either the PMF or MGF, and that it is easier than using the CDF. However, I want to understand the proof specifically using the CDFs. (As a sanity check that the formulas given for the CDFs are at least plausible.)
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As a community wiki answer I typed up an outline of what I tried so far, which either does not work or which I was not able to complete. Either way the calculations involved are not straightforward.