In the book Mathematical Methods for Physics and Engineering it is said that the likelihood function tends to a Gaussian (centred on the maximum-likelihood estimate) in the large sample limit. The way it is phrased makes it seem like they are saying this is due to the central limit theorem, but I am struggling to see how it is relevant. It relies on the random variable being a sum of a sequence of other random variables, which I don't think is the case here.
I believe this is often misunderstood, for example in this question, which I have several problems with. The arguments use the central limit theorem to find the distribution of the likelihood and show that it is asymptotically normal. However, we are not interested in its distribution as a random variable; we instead care about its functional form as the parameters are varied for given observed sample values.
As an example of what I mean, suppose we draw $n$ sample values $x_i$ from a distribution $P(x|\tau)=(1/\tau)\exp(-x/\tau)$. The likelihood function is then $$L(\boldsymbol{x};\tau)=P(x_1|\tau)P(x_2|\tau)\dots P(x_n|\tau)=\frac{1}{\tau^n}\exp{\left[-\frac{\sum_i x_i}{\tau}\right]}.$$ Suppose we now evaluate this using the observed values of $x_i$ and consider it as a function of $\tau$. In general this will obviously be different every time, but the book says that in the limit $n\to\infty$, the function tends to a Gaussian with peak centred on the maximum likelihood estimate $\hat{\tau}$ and width inversely proportional $\sqrt{n}$. Why should we expect this to be the case?