I am using ordinal R-package to fit a cumulative link mixed model to an ordered, categorical outcome (5 levels) using logit function as the link function. The model is a random intercepts only model. I was thinking that since the probability of a response $Y_i$ is conditionally multinomial on estimated conditional modes of random effects, i.e.
$$\begin{align} \operatorname {logit} [P(Y_{ijk} \le j \mid x, b_k)] = \alpha_j - x_{i}\beta + b_k, \end{align}$$
where $i$ indexes observations, $j$ indexes response category and $k$ indexes participants, I should (somehow) incorporate estimated conditional modes $b_k$ into a visual diagnostic* of the proportional odds assumption. If the assumption is violated, I would analyse the data with a non-proportional odds model. What would be an appropriate way to incorporate estimated conditional modes of random effects into the visual plot? If this is not a good approach, is there an another way to check the proportional odds assumption?
*Please see the second figure from this answer for reference.