I asked this question and thought I found a solution to it by working through the steps in my textbook. Unfortunately the comments told me that I was completely wrong and only got the proof to work by chance, so now I'm really lost and frustrated.
To fix notation, the model is $$ y_i = \beta_0 + \beta_1 x_i + u_i, $$ where $u_i$ is the error term.
Earlier I showed that $\hat{\beta}_1 = \beta_1 + \sum_{i=1}^n w_i u_i$, where $w_i = \frac{x_i - \bar{x}}{SST_x}$, and $SST_x = \sum_{i=1}^n (x_i - \bar{x})^2$.
Here is what I did so far: \begin{align} E[(\hat{\beta_1}-\beta_1) \bar{u}] &= E[\bar{u}\displaystyle\sum\limits_{i=1}^n w_i u_i] \\ &=\displaystyle\sum\limits_{i=1}^n E[w_i \bar{u} u_i] \\ &=\displaystyle\sum\limits_{i=1}^n w_i E[\bar{u} u_i] \\ &= \displaystyle\sum\limits_{i=1}^n w_i \left(Cov(\bar{u}, u_i) + E(\bar{u})E(u_i)\right) \\ &= \displaystyle\sum\limits_{i=1}^n w_i Cov(\bar{u}, u_i) \\ &= \displaystyle\sum\limits_{i=1}^n w_i Cov\left(\frac{1}{n} \displaystyle\sum\limits_{i=1}^n u_i, u_i\right) \\ &= \frac{1}{n}\displaystyle\sum\limits_{i=1}^n w_i Cov\left(\displaystyle\sum\limits_{i=1}^n u_i, u_i\right) \\ &= \frac{1}{n}\displaystyle\sum\limits_{i=1}^n w_i E\left(\left[u_i - E(u_i)\right]\left[ \displaystyle\sum\limits_{i=1}^n u_i - E\left(\displaystyle\sum\limits_{i=1}^n u_i\right)\right]\right) \\ &= \frac{1}{n}\displaystyle\sum\limits_{i=1}^n w_i E\left(\left[u_i - E(u_i)\right]\left[ \displaystyle\sum\limits_{i=1}^n u_i - \displaystyle\sum\limits_{i=1}^n E\left(u_i\right)\right]\right) \\ &= \frac{1}{n}\displaystyle\sum\limits_{i=1}^n w_i E\left(\left[u_i - 0\right]\left[ \displaystyle\sum\limits_{i=1}^n u_i - 0\right]\right) \\ &= \frac{1}{n}\displaystyle\sum\limits_{i=1}^n w_i E\left(u_i\displaystyle\sum\limits_{i=1}^n u_i\right) \\ &= \frac{1}{n}\displaystyle\sum\limits_{i=1}^n w_i \left[E\left(u_i u_1 +\cdots + u_i u_n \right)\right] \\ &= \frac{1}{n}\displaystyle\sum\limits_{i=1}^n w_i \left[E\left(u_i u_1\right) +\cdots + E\left(u_i u_n \right)\right] \\ \end{align}
At this point, I want to say that because we assume the errors for each observation are i.i.d:
\begin{align} &= \frac{1}{n}\displaystyle\sum\limits_{i=1}^n w_i \left[E(u_i) E(u_1) +\cdots + E(u_i) E(u_n)\right] \\ \end{align}
But if this is the case then since $E(u_i) = 0, \forall i$, everything just cancels and I don't need to use the definition of $w_i$, which one of the comments mentioned I needed to use last time.
This is in chapter 2 of my book and the book says that "it's obvious that..." so maybe it is obvious. I keep asking for hints but I feel like I don't understand them, but I want to keep trying.
Is this correct? If not, does anyone have a hint on this part of the problem, assuming I'm on the right path? I can probably make the steps less verbose, but I want to make sure it's right first. The last time I worked this out, I reached the right conclusion but the proof was all wrong, so I'm assuming I only have it right by chance again.