Well, the first thing to do, like always, is to look at your data. The simplest way is just a scatter plot, $m1$ against $m2$. On the scatter plot, just add a good OLS old linear regression, and look at the Pearson correlation coefficient, and the slope and intercept of the OLS.
If the correlation is not even linear, you have some more work to do to investigate the 2 methods; they do not really seem to calculate the same thing, the same way...
If the linear correlation coefficient is low, your 2 methods mostly do not agree, and there is no point in digging any further.
Assuming a decent linear correlation, I would look at the slope and intercept; are they close to 1 and 0 respectively? If not, there is systematic bias bewteen the 2 methods; additive for a non-0 intercept, and multiplicative for non-1 slope. There is no point in comparing the 2 datasets until you correct for these potential systematic biases (think of this as "calibration"). Remove all the non-random, systematic biases, before you try to analyze the random errors.
Now you have correlated data, with no systematic biases. You can start comparing in more depth.
I would then determine whether I look at the differences between the 2 methods in absolute terms ($m_1-m_2$), or relative terms ($\frac {(m_1-m_2)} {m_1}$); this is domain dependent. E.g. if I measure glucose levels, I would use relative terms -a difference of 10 at a glucose level near 300mg/dl, or near 80mg/dl are clinically very different. But if I measure body temperature, the range is so small (80-110C?), that I can use absolute differences. For relative difference use either method (Bland-Altman uses the average of the 2).
Now, you can do a simple scatter plot, or a Bland-Altman plot (a variant of the scatter plot), using the "calibrated" datasets, and the (absolute or relative) differences.
The plots should already visually show you extreme values (aka outliers, but I do not like using this term). And you can compute the sd of the differences and use 1, 2, or 3 sd's as your criteria for flagging extreme values. But often, you would use another criteria; it may be that, in your specific domain, a difference of $x$, or $x$% is practically significant (e.g. 15% for glucose levels, 0.5C for temperature); therefore that is what you should use as your criteria, regardless of the sd.