Intro As @vqv mentionned Total variation and Kullback Leibler are two interesting distance. The first one is meaningfull because it can be directly related to first and second type errors in hypothesis testing. The problem with the Total variation distance is that it can be difficult to compute. The Kullback Leibler distance is easier to compute and I will come to that later. It is not symetric but can be made symetric (somehow a little bit artificially).
Answer Something I mention here is that if $\mathcal{L}$ is the log likelihood ratio between your two gaussian measures $P_0,P_1$ (say that for $i=0,1$ $P_i$ has mean $\mu_i$ and covariance $C_i$) error measure that is also interseting (in the gaussian case I found it quite central actually) is
$$ \|\mathcal{L}\|^2_{L_2(P_{1/2})} $$
for a well chosen $P_{1/2}$.
In simple words:
- there might be different interesting "directions" rotations, that are obtained using your formula with one of the "interpolated" covariance matrices $\Sigma=C_{i,1/2}$ ($i=1,2,3,4$ or $5$) defined at the end of this post (the number $5$ is the one you propose in your comment to your question).
- since your two distributions have different covariances, it is not sufficiant to compare the means, you also need to compare the covariances.
Let me explain you why this is my feeling, how you can compute this in the case of $C_1\neq C_0$ and how to choose $P_{1/2}$.
Linear case If $C_1=C_0=\Sigma$.
$$\sigma= \Delta \Sigma^{-1} \Delta=\|2\mathcal{L}\|^2_{L_2(P_{1/2})}$$
where $P_{1/2}$ is the "interpolate" between $P_1$ and $P_0$ (gaussian with covariance $\Sigma$ and mean $(\mu_1+\mu_0)/2$). Note that in this case, the Hellinger distance, the total variation distance can all be written using $\sigma$.
How to compute $\mathcal{L}$ in the general case A natural question that arises from your question (and mine) is what is a natural "interpolate" between $P_1$ and $P_0$ when $C_1\neq C_0$. Here the word natural may be user specific but for example it may be related to the best interpolation to have a tight upper bound with another distance (e.g. $L_1$ distance here)
Writting
$$ \mathcal{L}= \phi (C^{-1/2}_i(x-\mu_i))-\phi (C^{-1/2}_j(x-\mu_j))-\frac{1}{2}\log \left ( C_iC_j^{-}\right )
$$
($i=0,j=1$)
may help to see where is the interpolation task, but :
$$\mathcal{L}(x)=-\frac{1}{2}\langle
A_{ij}(x-s_{ij}),x-s_{ij}\rangle_{\mathbb{R}^p}+\langle
G_{ij},x-s_{ij}\rangle_{\mathbb{R}^p}-c_{ij}, \;[1]$$
with
$$A_{ij}=C_i^{-}-C_j^{-},\;\; G_{ij}=S_{ij}m_{ij},\;\; S_{ij}=\frac{C_i^{-}+C_j^{-}}{2}, $$
$$ c_{ij}=\frac{1}{8}\langle A_{ij}
m_{ij},m_{ij}\rangle_{\mathbb{R}^p}+\frac{1}{2}\log|\det(C_j^{-}C_i)| $$
and
$$ m_{ij}=\mu_i-\mu_j \;\; and\;\; s_{ij}=\frac{\mu_i+\mu_j}{2}$$
is more relevant for computational purpose.
For any gaussian $P_{1/2}$ with mean $s_{01}$ and covariance $C$ the calculation of $\|\mathcal{L}\|^2_{L_2(P_{1/2})}$ from Equation $1$ is a bit technical but faisible. You might also use it to compute the Kulback leibler distance.
What interpolation should we choose (i.e. how to choose $P_{1/2}$)
It is clearly understood from Equation $1$ that there are many different candidates for $P_{1/2}$ (interpolate) in the "quadratic" case. The two candidates I found "most natural" (subjective:) ) arise from defining for $t\in [0,1]$ a gaussian distribution $P_t$ with mean $t\mu_1+(1-t)\mu_0$:
- $P^1_t$ as the distribution of $$ \xi_t=t\xi_1+(1-t)\xi_0$$ (where $\xi_i$ is drawn from $P_i$ $i=0,1$) which has covariance $C_{t,1}=(tC_1^{1/2}+(1-t)C_0^{1/2})^2$).
- $P^2_t$ with inverse covariance $C_{t,2}^{-1}=tC_{1}^{-1}+(1-t)C_0^{-1}$
- $P^3_t$ with covariance $C_{t,3}=tC_1+(1-t)C_0$
- $P^4_t$ with inverse covariance $C_{t,4}^{-1}=(tC^{-1/2}_1+(1-t)C^{-1/2}_0)^{2}$
EDIT: The one you propose in a comment to your question could be $C_{t,5}=C_1^{t}C_0^{1-t}$, why not ...
I have my favorite choice which is not the first one :) don't have much time to discuss that here. Maybe I'll edit this answer later...