Essentially, the issue is to show that $\lim_{n\to\infty}(1- 1/n)^n=e^{-1}$
(and of course, $e^{-1} =1/e \approx 1/3$, at least very roughly).
It doesn't work at very small $n$ -- e.g. at $n=2$, $(1- 1/n)^n=\frac{1}{4}$. It passes $\frac{1}{3}$ at $n=6$, passes $0.35$ at $n=11$, and $0.366$ by $n=99$. Once you go beyond $n=11$, $\frac{1}{e}$ is a better approximation than $\frac{1}{3}$.
The grey dashed line is at $\frac{1}{3}$; the red and grey line is at $\frac{1}{e}$.
Rather than show a formal derivation (which can easily be found), I'm going to give an outline (that is an intuitive, handwavy argument) of why a (slightly) more general result holds:
$$e^x = \lim_{n\to \infty} \left(1 + x/n \right)^n$$
(Many people take this to be the definition of $\exp(x)$, but you can prove it from simpler results such as defining $e$ as $\lim_{n\to \infty} \left(1 + 1/n \right)^n$.)
Fact 1: $\exp(x/n)^n=\exp(x)\quad$ This follows from basic results about powers and exponentiation
Fact 2: When $n$ is large, $\exp(x/n) \approx 1+x/n\quad$ This follows from the series expansion for $e^x$.
(I can give fuller arguments for each of these but I assume you already know them)
Substitute (2) in (1). Done. (For this to work as a more formal argument would take some work, because you'd have to show that the remaining terms in Fact 2 don't become large enough to cause a problem when taken to the power $n$. But this is intuition rather than formal proof.)
[Alternatively, just take the Taylor series for $\exp(x/n)$ to first order. A second easy approach is to take the binomial expansion of $\left(1 + x/n \right) ^n$ and take the limit term-by-term, showing it gives the terms in the series for $\exp(x/n)$.]
So if $e^x = \lim_{n\to \infty} \left(1 + x/n \right) ^n$, just substitute $x=-1$.
Immediately, we have the result at the top of this answer, $\lim_{n\to\infty}(1- 1/n)^n=e^{-1}$
As gung points out in comments, the result in your question is the origin of the 632 bootstrap rule
e.g. see
Efron, B. and R. Tibshirani (1997),
"Improvements on Cross-Validation: The .632+ Bootstrap Method,"
Journal of the American Statistical Association Vol. 92, No. 438. (Jun), pp. 548-560