You are almost there, follow your last step: $$E[X] = \frac{1}{\sqrt{2\pi}}\int_{-\infty}^{\infty} xe^{\displaystyle\frac{-x^{2}}{2}}\mathrm{d}x\\=-\frac{1}{\sqrt{2\pi}}\int_{-\infty}^{\infty}e^{-x^2/2}d(-\frac{x^2}{2})\\=-\frac{1}{\sqrt{2\pi}}e^{-x^2/2}\mid_{-\infty}^{\infty}\\=0$$. Or you can directly use the fact that $xe^{-x^2/2}$ is an odd function and the limits of the integral are symmetry.