Re your 1st question ColinearityCollinearity does not make the estimators biased or inconsistent, it just makes them subject to the problems Greene lists (with @whuber 's comments for clarification).
Re your 3rd question: High colinearitycollinearity can exist with moderate correlations; e.g. if we have 9 iid variables and one that is the sum of the other 9, no pairwise correlation will be high but there is perfect collinearity.
Collinearity is a property of sets of independent variables, not just pairs of them.