In addition to Demetri's answer (+1):
- The use of GAM is well-established in the field of Ecology so I would add certain books/influential articles. Show you are not reinventing the wheel rather that you are abreast with modern modelling approaches.
- You do not describe your sample size but you might want to try a validation schema to show that through the use of GAMs you get better goodness-of-fit. While hand-wavy if something like an AIC/BIC shows a clear preference for a particular model this can pacify some (not too sophisticated) criticism...
- I would emphasise how the GAM fitting procedure looks into shrinkage. It is plausible that someone oversimplified GAMs in his/her head as "a polynomial basis of sorts" and therefore prone to overfit.
- Take their view-point for a moment: are there any established studies suggesting logarithmic, or exponential decay curves already? The reviewer might be satisfied that you acknowledge them as a possibility. Maybe you can make a critical assessment of that prior work and show how your work is a step forward.
- As Dimitri mentioned, specifying a functional form without prior knowledge can induce strong bias. You can politely double-down on the fact you are using a non-parametric approach. Maybe even try a different basis functions (e.g. cubic regression splines and thin-plate splines) and show how the results are (hopefully) very similar and thus not dependant on the choice of basis functions.
Just to be clear: In my opinion, using GAMs is the correct approach here; the criticism of "why not X-functional form" is weak. Such criticism might be warranted if prior research suggested robust evidence for a particular modelling assumption but even then it would not be a particularly strong position to take. That said, try to see where they are come from too, criticism can be helpful strength your manuscript and/or alleviate worries of future readers too.