Several approaches:
(i) you can estimate mean and standard deviation on both the original and the log scale as needed, in the usual fashion. However, they may not necessarily be the most efficient way on the untransformed data (nor will the two sets of estimates necessarily be very consistent with each other)
(ii) via parametric assumption -- you say on the log scale $X=\log Y$ that the distribution is approximately normal. If you assume normality of the logs, you have consistent estimates of the $\mu$ and $\sigma^2$ parameters on the log scale (indeed the usual estimates are maximum likelihood), which parameters are also the $\mu$ and $\sigma^2$ parameters of the lognormal you started with (but these are not the mean and variance of the lognormal).
You can derive the mean and variance of the lognormal in terms of those parameters easily enough, but I'll just give them:
$E(Y) = e^{\mu+\frac12 \sigma^2}$
$\text{Var}(Y) = E(Y)^2\, (e^{\sigma^2}-1)$
You obtain the standard deviation by taking the square root.
As is usually the case with MLE, these estimates are not unbiased (though they're still consistent of course). If you're especially concerned about unbiasedness, you may want some correction for small samples -- though I work with lognormal models a lot and generally just stick with MLE for the main quantities of interest.
So if you use those equations to obtain the estimates of the mean and variance of the original variable you're getting ML estimates of the parameters.
(iii) you can avoid the assumption and use Taylor expansion to get approximate moments in one direction or the other (though if you have near normality in the logs, it makes more sense to do the estimation on the log scale and transform back.