In a Variational Autoencoder (VAE), given some data $x$ and latent variables $t$ with prior distribution $p(t) = \mathcal{N}(t \mid 0, I)$, the encoder aims to learn a distribution $q_{\phi}(t)$ that approximates the true posterior $p(t \mid x)$ and the decoder aims to learn a distribution $p_\theta(x\mid t)$ that approximates the true underlying distribution $p^*(x\mid t)$.
These models are then trained jointly to maximize an objective $L(\phi, \theta)$, which is a lower bound for the log-likelihood of the training set:
$$L(\varphi, \theta) = \sum_i \mathbb{E}_{q_\varphi} \log \frac{p_\theta(x_i\mid t) p(t)}{q_\varphi(t)} \leq \sum_i \log \int p_\theta(x_i\mid t)p(t) \, dt$$
According to section C.2 in the original paper from Kingma and Welling (https://arxiv.org/pdf/1312.6114.pdf), when we model $p_{\theta}(x|t)$ as a family of gaussians, the decoder should output both the mean $\mu(t)$ and the (diagonal) covariance $\sigma^2(t) I$ for the gaussian distribution.
My question is: isn't this optimization problem ill-posed (just like maximum likelihood training in GMMs)? Having an output for the variance (or log-variance, as is most common), if the decoder can produce a perfect reconstruction for a single image in the training set (i.e. $\mu(t_i)=x_i$) then it can set the corresponding variance $\sigma^2(t_i)$ to something arbitrarily close to zero and therefore the likelihood goes to infinity regardless of what happens with the remaining training examples.
I know that most gaussian VAE implementations have a simplified decoder that outputs the mean only, replacing the term $\mathbb{E}_{q_\varphi} \log p_\theta (x_i\mid t)$ by the squared error between the original image and the reconstruction (which is equivalent to setting the covariance to be always the identity matrix). Is this because of the ill-posedness of the original formulation?