This is a multi-fold question that has a number of closely related questions; that is why I will pose them all here, instead of separate questions.
In RL you have a parameterized policy that dictates the probability with which you pick action $a$ given parameters $\theta$ and state $s_t$. That is typically denoted as $\pi(a|\theta,s)=P(A_t=a|S_t=s,\theta_t=\theta$). When one is dealing with continuous actions, then one cannot talk about the probability of choosing an action. Instead, one chooses a density, for example Gaussian. Then the policy is given by:
$$\pi(a|s,\theta)=\dfrac{1}{\sigma(s,\theta)\sqrt{2\pi}}\exp\left(-\dfrac{(a-\mu(s,\theta)^2}{2\sigma(s,\theta)^2}\right)$$
One is interested in computing $\nabla_\theta \log \pi$. I'll do a preliminary calculation for mere illustrative purposes where I calculate the derivative with respect to $\mu_\theta$.
$$\dfrac{\partial \log\pi}{d\mu_\theta}=\dfrac{\partial \log \pi}{\partial \mu_\theta}=\dfrac{a-\mu_\theta}{\sigma}$$
1) Since an action $a$ has been sampled, can't that action $a$ be put back in $\nabla_\theta\log\pi$ an evaluate the gradient without any reparameterization trick? For instance, just plugging in $a,s,\theta$ in the above equation would result in the gradient to update the mean.
Moreover, for a Gaussian, the reparemeterization trick is as follows: $$x=\mu(s,\theta)+\sigma(s,\theta) \varepsilon$$
where $\varepsilon \sim \mathcal{N}(0, 1)$. Then $x$ is a Gaussian sample. If we want to compute the likelihood (not probability) of sample $x$, then that is: $$\pi(x|s,\theta)=\dfrac{1}{\sigma\sqrt{2\pi}}\exp\left(-\dfrac{(\mu+\sigma\varepsilon-\mu)^2}{2\sigma^2}\right)=\dfrac{1}{\sigma\sqrt{2\pi}}\exp\left(-\dfrac{(\sigma\varepsilon)^2}{2\sigma^2}\right)=\dfrac{1}{\sigma\sqrt{2\pi}}\exp\left(-\dfrac{\varepsilon}{2}\right)$$.
so, there is no dependence on $\mu$ anymore. This is corroborated by pytorch. In particular, this answer discusses that. Furthermore, when calculating $\nabla_\theta \log \pi$, the dependence on the sample is completely gone as $\nabla_\theta \log \exp(-\varepsilon/2)=0$
2) How to interpret this? how is it possible there is no dependance on $\mu$? or that $\nabla \log \pi$ does not depend at all on the value of $x$? This result seems contradictory to what I derived before ($d\log\pi/ d\phi$)
I know the idea of the reparameterization trick is that we can differentiate through it, but I don't see how it agrees with the derivation I had in the second equation. And more importantly, I don't really see why it is necessary in RL.