Essentially what happens is that the staggered DID can be interpreted as a weighted average of two-period DIDs. So if a group is treated in multiple periods and another is not it could happen that the treated group enters in as a control. This matters if there is treatment effect heterogeneity (for example the treatment has a larger effect in the 2nd active period than in the first) because it could bias the end results. I give more details about how this happens below.
Here is a more in-depth look at how and why this happens. For a more complete view, you should definitely read the 2020 paper I cite.
First, let us discuss why this occurs. Consider a two-way fixed effects estimator of the ATE via the regression formulation,
$$Y_{i,g,t} = \alpha_g + \alpha_t + \beta D_{g,t}+e_{igt}$$
It can be shown (see Theorem 1 of de Chaisemartin and D'Haultfoeuille 2020) that under parallel trends we can write the ATE as,
$$\beta = \mathbb{E}{\Large{[}}\sum_{(g,t);D_{g,t}=1}\frac{N_{g,t}}{N_1}w_{g,t}\Delta_{g,t}\Large{]}$$
where $\Delta_{g,t}$ denotes the ATE for a specific group-period and $w_{g,t}$ denotes the weights. The paper you referenced studies a special case of this estimator called a "staggered adoption" DID.
In this setting, Bacon (2018) gives an intuitive explanation for why negative weights occur,
I also explain why the negative weights occur: when already-treated units act as controls, changes in their treatment effects over time get subtracted from the DD estimate.
So to understand this phenomenon we need to understand why negative weights occur. The 2020 paper in fact presents a simple example of how this happens in staggered adoption,
Group 1 is untreated at periods 1 and 2 and treated at period 3, while group 2 is untreated at period 1 and treated both at periods 2 and 3.
With some additional assumptions in the paper it is shown that,
$$\beta = 0.5 \mathbb{E}[\Delta_{1,3}]+\mathbb{E}[\Delta_{2,2}]-0.5\mathbb{E}[\Delta_{2,3}]$$
Note that the weights are not equal and the weight assigned to group 2 period 3 is negative even though that group is treated in that period. You can read their paper for more details about how this can badly bias the results.
However, going back to the main question at hand we want to understand why this third weight is negative. If we have a mathematical understanding of this we can understand what is meant by treated units acting as controls. In particular, this example is really the average of two DIDs.
The first two-period design (remember in period 2 only group 2 is treated):
$$\mathbb{E}[Y_{2,2}-Y_{2,1}-(Y_{1,2}-Y_{1,1})]$$
Second two-period design (now both groups are treated):
$$\mathbb{E}[Y_{1,3}-Y_{1,2}-(Y_{2,3}-Y_{2,2})]$$
But notice, group 2 is treated in both periods! And, since the second two-period design needs to study the evolution of the treatment effect from period 2 to period 3 we have effectively used $Y_{2,2}$ a treated unit as a control!
Now let us dig in a little more. Notice that as Bacon asserts this only happens when treatment is unstable, i.e. it changes over time. Why is this? Well under common trends the second DID could be written as,
$$\mathbb{E}[\Delta_{1,3}-(\Delta_{2,3}-\Delta_{2,2})]$$
However, if treatment is homogenous then we get, $\mathbb{E}[(\Delta_{2,3}-\Delta_{2,2})]=0$. Thus, this issue does not arise.
A little literature review:
In general, these kinds of biases are quite common when estimating the ATE. Notice, that Imbens and Angrist (1994) show a very similar result that the IV estimator of the ATE can be written as a weighted average. Indeed, the famous monotonicity condition that they employ to deal with this ensures that we do not get negative weights. However, this makes their recovered estimate of the ATE "local". This is because the estimate can now only be considered an effect on "compliers". Of course, the monotonicity condition can be shown to be equivalent to a selection model (Vytlacil 2002) and this equivalence has allowed for a deeper study of heterogeneity in treatment effects (see Heckman and Vytlacil 2005). Thus, this kind of logic has actually come up in several places in the econometric literature.