Let X1 and X2 be normally distributed random variables with means m1 and m2 and standard deviations s1 and s2 and correlation coefficient r. Further, let D be an indicator (bivariate) variable taking the value 1 if X1 > X2 and 0 otherwise.
Question: What is Cov(X1 - X2, D)?
I expect the answer to be
q^2 f(a),
where q^2 = s1^2 + s2^2 - 2 r s1 s2, a = (m1 - m2)/q, and f() is the normal probability density function.
The challenge for you experts is to prove that I am wrong - or better that I am right in a compact way, or to provide a reference to the solution
Being a researcher in financial accounting, my statistical knowledge has become rusty over the years, so I will be deeply grateful for any help!