Upon studying the ML estimator this concept still confuses me.
First define an asymptotic covariance matrix for the MLE estimator (just as an example, we have two parameters $\beta$ and $\sigma^2$, $x_i$ is a vector of observations, see the derivation at the bottom):
$$V = I(\beta, \sigma^2)^{-1} =\begin{bmatrix} \frac{\sigma^2}{x_i x_i'} & 0 \\ 0 & 2 \sigma^4 \end{bmatrix}$$
As it can be seen the variables are uncorrelated, given that the variance is per definition obtained from the matrix, and our assumption is that it's normally distributed:
$$ \sqrt N (\beta_p-\hat \beta) \rightarrow ^d N(0,\frac{\sigma^2}{x_i x_i'})$$
$$ \sqrt N (\sigma_p^2 - \hat \sigma^2) \rightarrow ^d N(0, 2 \sigma^4)$$
My confusion is that generally speaking, shouldn't asymptotic variance matrix be defined as something that happens as N grows. Thus the diagonals of the matrix should be divided by N (and perhaps even probability limit taken to obtain the true asymptotic value, which in this case would be 0 for both estimates).
Are the different definitions at odds here or am I misunderstanding something here?
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Here is the full derivation of obtaining the information matrix, since it could be a other source of confusion:
$$L(y_1... y_n|x_i; \beta, \sigma^2) = \prod_{i=1}^{n} \frac{1}{2\pi \sigma^2}e^{(-\large \frac{y_i - x_i' \beta }{2 \sigma^2})^2}$$
Take logs and then the derivative, to get the score vector:
$$ \frac{\delta (log L)}{\delta \hat \beta} = \sum_{i=1}^nx_i(\frac {y_i-x_i' \hat\beta}{\sigma^2})$$
$$ \frac{\delta (log L)}{\delta \hat \beta} = \frac {N}{2 \sigma^2} +\sum_{i=1}^nx_i(\frac {y_i-x_i' \hat\beta}{2 \sigma^4})^2$$
At this point it's somehow fine to remove the sum signs, don't know what that is based on (please inform me if you do). Finally, put the two results into a vector and multiply the vector with its inverse, then take the expectation:
$$\large \text E [\begin{bmatrix} x_i(\frac {y_i-x_i' \hat\beta}{\sigma^2}) \\ \frac {N}{2 \sigma^2} +(\frac {y_i-x_i' \hat\beta}{2 \sigma^4})^2 \end{bmatrix}\begin{bmatrix} x_i'(\frac {y_i-x_i' \hat\beta}{\sigma^2}) & \frac {N}{2 \sigma^2} +(\frac {y_i-x_i' \hat\beta}{2 \sigma^4})^2 \end{bmatrix}]$$
Calculating the result will result in the information matrix, the asymptotic covariance matrix being its inverse.