I've got a se of the mean that is less than the se of the median, what does this tell me about my sampling distr.
Each standard error calculation was used with same sample size.
I've got a se of the mean that is less than the se of the median, what does this tell me about my sampling distr.
Each standard error calculation was used with same sample size.
Both the sample mean and the sample median (for a distribution with a smooth pdf) have a normal distribution for large sample size.
The variance of the sample mean is $\frac{\sigma^2}{n}$
The variance of the sample median is $\frac{1}{4nf(m)^2}$ where $f(m)$ is the probability density function evaluated at the median (source).
So for large sample sizes a comparison between the standard error of the mean and standard error of the median only gives you a comparison between the variance and the pdf evaluated at the median.
As per @Hugh, I do not think it is measure of a distribution's normality.
I think you may want to compare coefficient of variation $\frac{\sigma}{\mu}$ with interquartile ratio $\frac{IQR}{median}$, which only for a normal distribution would be $1.349\frac{\sigma}{\mu}=\frac{IQR}{median}$ or some variation thereof. For example, comparison of standard deviation and IQR forms the basis of a simple test for normality.