Let's say we have N distributions $\mathcal N(\mu_i, \sigma_i)$, each with unknown mean $\mu_i$ and unknown standard deviation $\sigma_i$, $i=0,...,N-1$.
For each $i$, $M$ independent random samples are drawn from from the distributions above $x_{ij} \sim N(\mu_i,\sigma_i)$, $i=0....N-1, j=0,...,M-1$ with the draws being jointly independent of each other.
Compute $N$ sample means $m_i = \frac1M\sum_j {x_{ij}}$ and $N$ sample variances $v_i = \frac{1}{M-1}\sum_j{(x_{ij} - m_i)^2}$.
Search for index $i_{max}$ such that $m_{i_{max}} = \max_i\, m_i$. That is, $i_{max}$ is the index of the random variable with the maximum sample mean.
What is the best unbiased estimate of true mean $\mu_{i_{max}}$? Is it simply $m_{i_{max}}$?