Consider the usual linear mixed model: $$Y=X \beta+ZB+\epsilon $$ where Y and $\epsilon$ are $n$-dimensional random variables and $B$ is a $q$-dimensional random variable independent of $\epsilon$ so we have: $B \sim N_q(0,\Sigma)$ and $\epsilon \sim N_n(0, \sigma^2 I_n)$. The matrices $X$ and $Z$ are model matrices of dimensions $n \times p $ and $n \times q$ and $\beta \in R^p$.
Now we consider the ordinary least squares (OLS) estimator for: $$\tilde{\beta}=(X^TX)^{-1}X^TY.$$ But I think this is not the ML estimator in the linear mixed model. Now I have to show that $\tilde{\beta}$ is an unbiased estimator of $\beta$ and that $$\text{Var}(\tilde{\beta})=(X^T X)^{-1} X^T(Z \Sigma_{\theta}Z^T)X(X^TX)^{-1}+\sigma^2(X^TX)^{-1}.$$ I'm not sure how to show it but I think that $\tilde{\beta}$ is an unbiased estimator of $\beta$ if its expected value is equal to the true value of the parameter. But how can I show that? And what can I do to show the expression for $\text{Var}(\tilde{\beta})$? What do they mean with the $\theta$ in $\Sigma_{\theta}$? I hope anyone can help me?