Suppose that we've got a graph with $k$ connected components. We'll denote the unnormalized Laplacian by $L$ and let $E_\lambda$ be the eigenspace corresponding to eigenvalue $\lambda$. If there are $k$ connected components then we'll find that $\dim E_0 = k$, and any basis for this space will have each vector be constant on each component (which we'll denote by $C_j$, $j = 1, \dots,k$). When we've got an eigenspace with dimension > 1 we know that the particular eigenvectors aren't important, it's the space as a whole that matters.
So with spectral clustering, when we run our algorithm (in the noiseless case) our eigensolver will produce a basis for $E_0$. But this particular basis isn't important, so we don't care about the particular values each vector takes but rather how they work together.
For example, consider the graph below:
One basis for $E_0$ is
$$
B_1 = \begin{bmatrix}1 & 1 \\ 1 & 1 \\ 1 & 1 \\ 1 & -1 \\ 1 & -1 \end{bmatrix}
$$
and another is
$$
B_2 = \begin{bmatrix}1 & 0 \\ 1 & 0 \\ 1 & 0 \\ 0 & 1 \\ 0 & 1 \end{bmatrix}.
$$
Which one you get from your particular eigensolver is a matter of its implementation and has nothing to do with the graph. Also note how we can rescale the values of the basis vectors on each component without changing anything.
That was for the totally noiseless case. Now let's suppose that we actually observe $\hat A = A + E$ where $E$ is some noisy matrix perturbing the "true" adjacency matrix $A$. $A$ is neatly separated into $k$ components but $\hat A$ is not.
This is where the stability of the eigenspaces comes into play. If the eigengap is large, i.e. $\lambda_{k+1} \gg 0$, then we'll still be able to recover our clusters effectively because the span of the first $k$ eigenvectors of $\hat L$ will be close to $E_0$. This is described in a number of papers, such as the well-known one by Ng, Jordan, and Weiss. The point of this, as mentioned in that paper, is that it's important to think in terms of the subspaces, not the particular eigenvectors since they are arbitrary.
Does that help?