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You have already fit your two competing models--in your case, the configural and loading invariant models. These models are "nested", in that they contain the same observed indicators, and the "nested" model (loading invariant) is a more parsimonious/constrained version of the more complicated "full" or "parent" model. Subsequently, the most common way of testing for differences in loadings would be to perform a $\chi^2$ difference test, where you compute and test a new $\chi^2$ statistic as: $\chi^2$(loading invariant) - $\chi^2$ (configural), with degrees of freedom $df$(loading) - $df$(configural).
However, you may (or may not) already be familiar with some of the concerns/objections to relying heavily on the $\chi^2$ statistic in model evaluation, and so there are other ways you could approach evaluating the comparability of loadings, such as by monitoring the increase in $RMSEA$ or the decrease in $CFI$ (see Chen, 2007; Cheung & Rensvold, 2002).
All of these approaches, so far, could be considered as something akin to an ANOVA for loadings--you are performing an omnibus test of the equivalence of all loadings simultaneously. If it was of interest to you to see which loading(s) were driving the noninvariance, instead of fixing all of them to equivalence, you could fix one particular pair to equivalence and compare against your configural invariance model, and then rinse and repeat for each pair of loadings you could test. Additionally, you could consider calculating an effect size measure of noninvariance, in order to illustrate the magnitude of noninvariance in a given indicator between groups (see Nye & Drasgow, 2011).
References
Chen, F. F. (2007). Sensitivity of goodness of fit indexes to lack of measurement invariance. Structural Equation Modeling: A Multidisciplinary Journal, 14(3), 464-504.
Cheung, G. W., & Rensvold, R. B. (2002). Evaluating goodness-of-fit indexes for testing measurement invariance. Structural Equation Modeling: A Multidisciplinary Journal, 9(2), 233-255.
Nye, C. D., & Drasgow, F. (2011). Effect size indices for analyses of measurement equivalence: Understanding the practical importance of differences between groups. Journal of Applied Psychology, 96(5), 966.
