When $Y = AX + \varepsilon$ (i.e., $Y$ comes from linear regression model), $$\varepsilon \sim \mathcal{N}(0, \sigma^2 I) \hspace{1em} \Rightarrow \hspace{1em} \hat{e} = (I - H) Y \sim \mathcal{N}(0, (I - H) \sigma^2_{})$$ and in that case residuals $\hat{e}_1, \ldots, \hat{e}_n$ are correlated and not independent. But when we do regression diagnostics and want to test the assumption $\varepsilon \sim \mathcal{N}(0, \sigma^2 I)$, every textbook suggests to use Q–Q plots and statistical tests on residuals $\hat{e}$ that were designed to test whether $\hat{e} \sim \mathcal{N}(0, \sigma^2 I)$ for some $\sigma^2 \in \mathbb{R}$.
How come it doesn't matter for these tests that residuals are correlated, and not independent? It is often suggested to use standardised residuals: $$\hat{e}_i' = \frac{\hat{e}_i}{\sqrt{1 - h_{ii}}},$$ but that only makes them homoscedastic, not independent.
To rephrase the question: Residuals from OLS regression are correlated. I understand that in practice, these correlations are so small (most of the time? always?), they can be ignored when testing whether residuals came from normal distribution. My question is, why?