In the comments, 15 ways to understand the correlation coefficent were suggested:
The 13 ways discussed in the Rodgers and Nicewander article (The American Statistician, February 1988) are
A Function of Raw Scores and Means,
$$r =\frac{\sum\left(X_i - \bar{X}\right)\left(Y_i - \bar{Y}\right)}{\sqrt{\sum\left(X_i-\bar{X}\right)^2\left(Y_i-\bar{Y}\right)^2}}.$$
Standardized Covariance,
$$r = s_{XY}/(s_Xs_Y)$$
where $s_{XY}$ is sample covariance and $s_X$ and $s_Y$ are sample standard deviations.
Standardized Slope of the Regression Line,
$$r = b_{Y\cdot X}\frac{s_X}{s_Y} = b_{X\cdot Y}\frac{s_Y}{s_X},$$
where $b_{Y\cdot X}$ and $b_{X \cdot Y}$ are the slopes of the regression lines.
The Geometric Mean of the Two Regression Slopes,
$$r = \pm \sqrt{b_{Y\cdot X}b_{X\cdot Y}}.$$
The Square Root of the Ratio of Two Variances (Proportion of Variability Accounted For),
$$r = \sqrt{\frac{\sum\left(Y_i - \hat{Y_i}\right)^2}{\sum\left(Y_i-\bar{Y}\right)^2}} = \sqrt{\frac{SS_{REG}}{SS_{TOT}}} = \frac{s_\hat{Y}}{s_Y}.$$
The Mean Cross-Product of Standardized Variables,
$$r = \sum z_X z_Y / N.$$
A Function of the Angle Between the Two Standardized Regression Lines. The two regression lines (of $Y$ vs. $X$ and $X$ vs. $Y$) are symmetric about the diagonal. Let the angle between the two lines be $\beta$. Then
$$r = \sec(\beta)\pm \tan(\beta).$$
A Function of the Angle Between the Two Variable Vectors,
$$r = \cos(\alpha).$$
A Rescaled Variance of the Difference Between Standardized Scores. Letting $z_Y - z_X$ be the difference between standardized $X$ and $Y$ variables for each observation,
$$r = 1 - s^2_{(z_Y - z_X)} / 2 = s^2_{(z_Y+z_X)}/2 - 1.$$
Estimated from the "Balloon" Rule,
$$r \approx \sqrt{1 - (h/H)^2}$$
where $H$ is the vertical range of the entire $X-Y$ scatterplot and $h$ is the range through the "center of the distribution on the $X$ axis" (that is, through the point of means).
In Relation to the Bivariate Ellipses of Isoconcentration,
$$r = \frac{D^2 - d^2}{D^2 + d^2}$$
where $D$ and $d$ are the major and minor axis lengths, respectively. $r$ also equals the slope of the tangent line of an isocontour (in standardized coordinates) at the point the contour crosses the vertical axis.
A Function of Test Statistics from Designed Experiments,
$$r = \frac{t}{\sqrt{t^2 + n-2}}$$
where $t$ is the test statistic in a two-independent sample $t$ test for a designed experiment with two treatment conditions (coded as $X=0, 1$) and $n$ is the combined total number of observations in the two treatment groups.
The Ratio of Two Means. Assume bivariate normality and standardize the variables. Select some arbitrarily large value $X_c$ of $X$. Then
$$r = \frac{\mathbb{E}(Y\,|\,X\gt X_c)}{\mathbb{E}(X\,|\,X\gt X_c)}.$$