An answer to your second question: One thing that is very clear is that the effect of age on morbidity/mortality is highly non-linear. The very young and old are at higher risk, and the lowest risk is for those in the "prime of their lives."
Despite the up-then-down-then-up curvature, the quadratic function is not sufficiently flexible to model this effect, so cubic functions and splines as you mention are preferred to quadratics.
Because there are extra parameters, determining an "age risk effect" becomes complicated with such models. In addition, modelling interaction effects involve age also becomes more cumbersome when using quadratics, cubics, and splines.
The following paper was written to address these problems:
Moreau AR, Westfall PH, Cancio LC, Mason AD Jr, "Development and validation of an age-risk score for mortality predication after thermal injury," The Journal of Trauma, 30 Apr 2005, 58(5):967-972.
In it, the authors develop and validate an "Age Risk Score" which can be used to convert age to "age risk", which can be used in regression models as an ordinary linear term. The score and also be used to assess interaction effects in the usual way, by using a simple multiplicative term.
The specific "Age Risk" score is given by
$$ AGESCORE = –5*Age + 14*(Age^2/100) – 7*(Age^3/10,000)$$
Lower values of the score correspond to lower risk, and higher values to higher risk.
Then your regression model (Cox, logistic, ordinary, etc) models the link of $Y$ in the usual simple regression way as
$\beta_0 + \beta_1 AGESCORE + \beta_2 X_2 + \cdots$.
Hope this is helpful!