I will give the hints for the first question. I assume that you are sampling without a replacement from the set $A=\{a_1,...,a_m\}$. We have that
$$P(S=\{a_1,...,a_n\})=\frac{1}{m\choose n}$$
So
$EVar(S)=\sum_{\{i_1,...,i_n\}\subset \{1,...,m\}}\left(\frac{1}{n}\sum_{j=1}^n a_{i_j}^2-\left(\frac{1}{n}\sum_{j=1}^na_{i_j}\right)^2\right)\frac{1}{m\choose n}$
Now
$$\sum_{\{i_1,...,i_n\}\subset \{1,...,m\}}a_{i_1}^2={{m-1}\choose{n-1}}\sum_{i=1}^ma_i^2 $$
and
$$\sum_{\{i_1,...,i_n\}\subset \{1,...,m\}}a_{i_1}a_{i_2}={{m-2}\choose {n-2}}\sum_{i\neq j}^ma_ia_j$$
So the first term in expectation will be
$$\sum_{\{i_1,...,i_n\}\subset \{1,...,m\}}\frac{1}{n}\sum_{j=1}^n a_{i_j}^2\frac{1}{m\choose n}=\sum_{i=1}^na_i^2\frac{1}{m\choose n}{{m-1}\choose {n-1}}=\frac{1}{m}\sum_{i=1}^ma_i^2$$
I'll leave the second term as an exercise. The end result should be that
$$EVar(S)=Var(a_1,...,a_m)$$
maybe with some constants missing. As this is a standard result in survey sampling theory, you can look it up in appropriate book.
As for the second question, I do not think there is a closed formula. The case with $m=3$ and $n=2$ illustrates this. Then there are 3 possible samples and $Var S$ can get three values $(a_1-a_2)^2/4$, $(a_2-a_3)^2/4$ and $(a_1-a_3)^2/4$. The maximum depends on the set $A=\{a_1,a_2,a_3\}$.