This second answer provides a more detailed derivation of why the asymptotic distribution is multivariate normal with identity covariance matrix for $Y_t$ white noise. (Notation differs slightly from the question and previous answer, in that autocorrelations are denoted by $\rho$ and that we look at $p$ of them, following Brockwell and Davis, Time Series - Theory and Methods more closely.)
Brockwell and Davis, Thm. 7.2.1, states that the distribution of the correlation coefficients $\hat{\rho}=(\hat{\rho}_1,\ldots,\hat{\rho}_p)^\top$ if $Y_t$ is a general linear process
$$
Y_t=\mu+\sum_{j=-\infty}^{\infty}\psi_j\epsilon_{t-j}
$$
with $E|\epsilon_t|^4<\infty$ and $\sum_{j=-\infty}^{\infty}|\psi_j|<\infty$ is given by
$$
\sqrt{n}(\hat{\rho}-\rho)=N(0,W)
$$
where the elements of $W$ are given by
$$
w_{ij}=\sum_{k=-\infty}^{\infty}\rho_{k+i}\rho_{k+j}+\rho_{k-i}\rho_{k+j}+2\rho_{i}\rho_{j}\rho_{k}^2-2\rho_{i}\rho_{k}\rho_{k+j}-2\rho_{j}\rho_{k}\rho_{k+i}
$$
This can also be written as
$$
w_{ij}=\sum_{k=1}^{\infty}\{\rho_{k+i}+\rho_{k-i}-2\rho_{i}\rho_{k}\}\{\rho_{k+j}+\rho_{k-j}-2\rho_{j}\rho_{k}\}\qquad(*)
$$
To see this, write $w_{ij}=\sum_{k=-\infty}^{\infty}w_{ij,k}$ and decompose $w_{ij}$ as
$$
w_{ij}=\sum_{k=-\infty}^{-1}w_{ij,k}+w_{ij,0}+\sum_{k=1}^{\infty}w_{ij,k}
$$
Using $\rho_i=\rho_{-i}$ we directly verify that $w_{ij,0}=0$. Next, write
\begin{eqnarray*}
\sum_{k=-\infty}^{-1}w_{ij,k}&=&\sum_{k=1}^{\infty}w_{ij,-k}\\
&=&\sum_{k=1}^{\infty}\rho_{-k+i}\rho_{-k+j}+\rho_{-k-i}\rho_{-k+j}+2\rho_{i}\rho_{j}\rho_{-k}^2
-2\rho_{i}\rho_{-k}\rho_{-k+j}-2\rho_{j}\rho_{-k}\rho_{-k+i}
\end{eqnarray*}
Stationarity again implies that, e.g., $\rho_{-k+j}=\rho_{-(-k+j)}=\rho_{k-j}$. Hence,
\begin{eqnarray*}
\sum_{k=1}^{\infty}w_{ij,-k}&=&\sum_{k=1}^{\infty}\rho_{k-i}\rho_{k-j}+\rho_{k+i}\rho_{k-j}+2\rho_{i}\rho_{j}\rho_{k}^2
-2\rho_{i}\rho_{k}\rho_{k-j}-2\rho_{j}\rho_{k}\rho_{k-i}
\end{eqnarray*}
Hence,
\begin{eqnarray*}
\sum_{k=-\infty}^{\infty}w_{ij,k}&=&\sum_{k=1}^{\infty}\rho_{k+i}\rho_{k+j}+\rho_{k-i}\rho_{k+j}+2\rho_{i}\rho_{j}\rho_{k}^2
-2\rho_{i}\rho_{k}\rho_{k+j}-2\rho_{j}\rho_{k}\rho_{k+i}\notag\\
&&\;+\sum_{k=1}^{\infty}\rho_{k-i}\rho_{k-j}+\rho_{k+i}\rho_{k-j}+2\rho_{i}\rho_{j}\rho_{k}^2
-2\rho_{i}\rho_{k}\rho_{k-j}-2\rho_{j}\rho_{k}\rho_{k-i}\notag\\
&=&\sum_{k=1}^{\infty}\rho_{k+i}\rho_{k+j}+\rho_{k-i}\rho_{k+j}+4\rho_{i}\rho_{j}\rho_{k}^2
-2\rho_{i}\rho_{k}\rho_{k+j}-2\rho_{j}\rho_{k}\rho_{k+i}\notag\\
&&\qquad+\rho_{k-i}\rho_{k-j}+\rho_{k+i}\rho_{k-j}-2\rho_{i}\rho_{k}\rho_{k-j}-2\rho_{j}\rho_{k}\rho_{k-i}\qquad(**)
\end{eqnarray*}
Multiplying out (*) gives
\begin{eqnarray*}
w_{ij}&=&\sum_{k=1}^{\infty}\rho_{k+i}\rho_{k+j}+\rho_{k+i}\rho_{k-j}-2\rho_{k+i}\rho_{j}\rho_{k}+\rho_{k-i}\rho_{k+j}\\
&&\;+\rho_{k-i}\rho_{k-j}-2\rho_{k-i}\rho_{j}\rho_{k}-2\rho_{i}\rho_{k}\rho_{k+j}-2\rho_{i}\rho_{k}\rho_{k-j}+4\rho_{i}\rho_{k}^2\rho_{j}
\end{eqnarray*}
which is the same as (**).
To show the desired result for $Y_t$ white noise, note that the diagonal elements are
\begin{eqnarray*}
w_{ii}&=&\sum_{k=-\infty}^{\infty}\rho_{k+i}\rho_{k+i}+\rho_{k-i}\rho_{k+i}+2\rho_{i}\rho_{i}\rho_{k}^2
-2\rho_{i}\rho_{k}\rho_{k+i}-2\rho_{i}\rho_{k}\rho_{k+i}\\
&=&\sum_{k=-\infty}^{\infty}\rho_{k+i}^2+\rho_{k-i}\rho_{k+i}+2\rho_{i}^2\rho_{k}^2
-4\rho_{i}\rho_{k}\rho_{k+i}
\end{eqnarray*}
If $Y_t$ is white noise then $\rho_i=0$ for all $i\neq0$. Hence,
$$\sum_{k=-\infty}^{\infty}\rho_{k+i}^2+\rho_{k-}\rho_{k+i}+2\rho_{i}^2\rho_{k}^2
-4\rho_{i}\rho_{k}\rho_{k+i}=1+0+0-0=1,$$ where the unit entry obtains when $k=-i$. The second term is always zero because the two terms cannot simultaneously have index zero. For $i\neq j$, note from $i,j,k>0$ that
$$
w_{ij}=\sum_{k=1}^{\infty}0+0-2\cdot0+0+\rho_{k-i}\rho_{k-j}-2\cdot0-2\cdot0-2\cdot0+4\cdot0
$$
The only remaining entry must also be zero as $i\neq j$ such that not both $\rho_m$ can have index $m=0$.